Goodbye, Yasmin

Its hard for me to express how extremely devastated I am to know of Yasmin Ahmad’s passing. When I heard the news of her collapsing and being rushed to the hospital, I honestly thought that she will be well again. My dad had a stroke too and he got better afterwards.

But when I checked my twitter timeline to see friends tweeting about her passing, at first I was in denial. And then it sinked in and I felt so emotional, that the tears just flowed.

She was one of my role models. I first got to know her work while watching The Love Story of Tan Hong Ming. And the first thing that I thought was what an adorable story it was, but it had an under-lying message of being race-blind. Being in an interracial relationship myself, it just touched me.

It was only later when I was chatting with Mintea, that I realised that I had watched quite a number of her works previously. Such as this petronas ad in 2007

I was such a sap that got emotional and cried at each and every one of them. They all touched me.

That made me extremely excited and I was fortunate enough to meet her last year during the launch of one of her campaigns. She was regal, she was witty and she was charming. It was hard not to fall in love with her. She had an elegance about her.

She shared with us on how she overcame adversities being a woman and a Malay by quoting this simple sentence : The thicker and deeper the mud, the more beautiful the lotus grows and that really stuck to me.

And she also shared with us that to be a good storyteller, be it a writer or a director, is not to control too much and just go ahead and share what you know. Many a times I don’t think that I’m such a fantastic writer, compared to others, but what she said gave motivation for me to continue writing for this blog. So I write through my own eyes. No pretences. No bullshit.

Rinaz and Mintea meets Yasmin Ahmad

I could have listened to her for hours.

Later through the year, I managed to catch Gubra with my family and then Muallaf with Daphne. It was unconventional, and as it touched many sensitive topics, it was probably not a film that everyone would appreciate but I loved it. Yasmin had the balls to stand up for herself. And I was looking forward to see more of her genius-ity.

But she’s gone too soon. We’ve just lost the storyteller. And I’m devastated.

Goodbye, Yasmin

pic via Wordlife

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When the clutter monster attacks!

Cart and I were hosting my friends Lynn and Francesco for dinner last night. We were showing them around the house – the bedroom, the study room, the balcony et al.

rinaz the desperate stepford wife
I forgot to take a picture of Lynn and Francesco, so I’ll put this pic of me instead 😛

It was when we were in the kitchen that they were curious to see the laundry room. Francesco almost opened the door before Cart stopped him.

I was horrified. Because beyond the door was of unspeakable nature. It was something that must never be seen by a mortal.

It was the clutter monster lurking.

The clutter monster

It so cluttered with newspapers, empty bottles and plastic bags that I was so embarassed. Fortunately, they did not go on further.

The next day, I could not hold my procrastination to tidy the laundry room any longer. I decided to face the clutter monster.

It daunting. It was a long and tedious battle – Clearing and folding all those plastic bags. But several hours later, the clutter monster left and all was relatively peaceful in the kingdom of Laundria again.

But that really made me wonder. How was it that we had so many plastic bags in the first place?

Cart and I, as with most people, have develop the habit of saving the plastic bags, mostly to use it to throw rubbish in before sending it to the main bins outside the house.

Here in Italy, rubbish bins are colour coded according to the type of material.

Rubbish bins in Italy

It seems like for every time that we used one to throw rubbish in, 4 new plastic bags comes in.

If P is for incoming plastic bag and p is for outgoing plastic bags, then P = 4p hence P/p = 4 meaning they are directly proportional. And eventually we will be chased out of our home.

Rinaz act teacher

What is interesting in Italy is that, shoppers would have to pay for their plastic bags. Whereas in Singapore, you could get it for free normally or 5 cents each bag once a month when Fairprice does their Bring-your-own-bag scheme.

In any case, you could choose between a regular plastic bag or the more expensive biodegradable one.

Regular and Biodegradable Plastic bag

Cart and I found out that the biodegradable one isn’t very strong though. We put a couple of bottles in it and the bag broke. So, ironically, people would buy the cheaper and stronger plastic anyway.

But what is stranger to me is how we are so willing to pay for plastic bags. I think I’d rather carry a large shopping bag. More for controlling the clutter monster rather than anything else.

Plastic bags into triangle

Much better!

By the way, here is a video on how to fold your plastic bags into triangles

And thus, here ends today’s blog post of the exciting life of me

Do you like my rainbow eyeshadow?

I’ve always liked mekap. Colours fascinates me. To me, make up is like art where the canvas was the skin.

But I have never really been that great at putting on cosmetics. Moreoever, growing up, rarely I felt pretty. I admired my good friend Juli, who was naturally talented in mekap. We were supposed to set up a make over venture together. But now that I’ve migrated to Italy …

Nevertheless, thanks to mekap gurus on youtube totally making me jonesing for mekap, I bought enough mekap to last me for 10 years. It’s just too bad that cosmetics expires in way less than half that.

Rinaz and her mekap

Interestingly enough, I met with make up artist, Andy Lee, during a Revlon event last year. I told him that I wasn’t good with eye make up. But he was really nice and advised me not to give up and just practise more. That gave me a little bit more confidence to experiment with colours.

While back in Singapore, I’d just slap on my mekap and scoot out of the house. Now I’ve got quite a bit of free time to practise.

Of course the first few times, it doesn’t look all that great. I’m not a patient person and I almost smashed the freaking liquid eyeliner.

But little by little, I think I’m getting better. Nowadays, I really enjoy playing with my colours and I feel very proud of myself when I see that I am starting to get a hang of it.

Rinaz and her mekap

I did a rainbow eyeshadow look last year, after following this tutorial on youtube. It looked so pretty on her. But it just didn’t look quite right on me. I never knew how to blend properly and for a newbie to try to put on 6 different eyeshadow on an eyelid was surely asking for a disaster.

But just for fun, I tried out another tutorial. And this is how it turned out. Woohoo!

Rinaz and her mekap

Andy Lee said that I should not put colours under my eyes but heck I’m really loving this! I’d go out with this even. Granted that its not perfect and I still have lots to learn and practise, it does look quite cherful.

This gives me the drive to want to take up a course on cosmetics. Would be a bit tough for someone who is not fluent in Italian though.

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Rinaz is a plant killer

I’ve always loved flowers. I’ve always dreamed about having a garden full of beautiful and colourful flowers. I was thrilled when my classmate gave me this as a house warming party

I still have no idea what this flower is

What a lovely little flower. So bright!

But after about a month, cobwebs started to form on the flowers. The flowers itself started to shrivel.

Botak

I thought it was best to chop the flowers off. The plant seems to be doing ok, but it looks so sad now!

And some while back, I bought for myself a nice pot of Begonias

Begonia

It was so pretty. I loved looking at the yellows and greens. They were so cheerful looking.

Dead Begonia

But for some reason, its not doing too well either. Its starting to be brown and its wilting!

What am I doing wrong?!?!

Did I water too much? Did I water too little? Did I give it too much sun? Did I not give it enough sun? Its seems more complicated than taking care of kittens!

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I seem to be an accidental plant killer!

You can see boobies on TV in Italy

It has been about a month since Rai, an Italian TV station, has been broadcasting via digital TV.

While many of us would be more familiar with the old analogue receiver, I still remember the dish shaped receiver that my family used. Here in Italy, the television stations here are slowly phasing out their analogue television and changing it to digital broadcasting.

Cart got this little black device for the TV in the kitchen.

Digital Decoder for TV

This device is a digital TV decoder. Using new fangled technology, it allows users to have a clear reception. The instant that Cart installed it, I was rather surprised. The quality of the image was almost like HD quality while previously it was a tad snowy.

How Digital Decoder for TV works

And previously, while we used to have about 7 stations, now we have about 25 free to air stations! Several of them are not Italian channels even. There was this one time when I caught an eccentric looking French chef completely in black outfit and black hat showing viewers on how to make a crepe.

Anyway, so far there are a couple of interesting interesting Italian shows that I’ve watched. One of them is X Factor Italia

X Factor Italia

X-factor is basically a singing competition rather similar to American Idol. Though I still don’t understand much as I still am not so fluent in Italian, it was still enjoyable to me. But what is strange about the show is that new contestants come to compete every two weeks instead of a cap at the very beginning. Also what is even stranger to me is that the champion of X Factor Italia has not had a CD out yet while all the runner ups already had theirs released.

X Factor Italia

Also, what is interesting about Italian television is that TV stations allows the broadcast of topless women after 10 pm and later. Being in Singapore where a plentiful of things are censored, you could imagine my surprise when I saw advertisements of topless women promoting sun tan lotion, slimming creams et al.

Topless Woman

But truth be told, now that I’m more used to it, there isn’t anything so special about seeing topless women on local television. It’s not like it’s so strange. It’s just women’s body.

In any case, another interesting thing about Italian TV here is that many (if not all) of the imported programmes here are dubbed.

True Blood? The Simpsons? Xena the warrior princess? All dubbed.

But one question remains. How the heck do I set up digital tv on my HP Touchsmart?

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Maria Hertogh dies at 72 from leukaemia

Maria Bertha Hertogh died recently at 72 years old from Leukaemia.

To put it simply, Maria Hertogh was a Dutch girl who was adopted and brought up by a Malay lady, Che Aminah for several years in the 1940s. By then, she grew up to be like a Malay Muslim girl.

It was only some years later that her natural parents, who were catholics, asked the courts to get their daughter back. The judge ruled in favour of the natural parents.

Maria Hertogh and Che Amina

Maria wept and clung to her foster mother.

She was then placed in a convent home before being sent back to Netherlands. It was there when the news about her being surrounded by Catholic symbols were sensationalised. This deeply offended the Muslim faith that a riot broke out. 18 people killed and 179 injured.

Maria Hertogh and Che Amina

While in the Netherlands, Maria was extremely unhappy. Many times she expressed her desire to return back to Singapore but could not due to financial difficulties. She has said that her happiest times were her childhood in Singapore.

Her foster mother, Che Amina died in 1976.

Was it a matter of pride that the natural parents wanting their daughter back knowing very well that she was much happier to be with her foster mother?

Regardless, I just feel very bad for Maria Hertogh.

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The search for Pandan Leaves and Lemongrass in Rome

So far in Italy, there are a couple of Asian foodstuff that I could get, such as Thai rice, star anise, coconut milk and others. These are sold in kiosks. There will always be one or two in each market.

Lemongrass and Pandan leaves are among the basic ingredients for Malay food. To me, Nasi Lemak and Ayam Masak Merah doesn’t taste complete without them. And as of now, I have yet to find them here in Rome.

Through friends, Cart found out that there could be a possibility of getting the stuff that we need from a place called Mercato Esquillino.

A Subway in Rome

As Cart and I were a little concerned about searching for parking for the car, we decided to take the subway instead.

A couple of the subways here are interesting. They were painted with so much graffiti that it even looks like an artwork! We dropped down to the Termini station and had a walk.

Dilapilated buildings in Esquilino

Going down the street, it is an interesting looking, but rather rough looking area here. A couple of the buildings look dilapilated and just sad. It made me wonder why anyone would live there.

Chinese Shops in Rome

We also passed by quite a number of chinese owned shops selling bags, shoes and clothes.

Mercato Esquilino

At length we reached Mercato Esquillino. It was a large place. that was divided into two areas. One for foodstuff and the other was for apparels.

When we entered, I was really surprised at what was in front of me.

A kiosk in Esquilino

I didn’t feel like I was in Rome as I found so many different kiosks with owners of different nationalities selling various types of foodstuff – Items from Vietnam, Korea, Thailand, Africa and others.

I found an Indian man selling Indian spices. I could detect him talking in Tamil to his customers. There were a Chinese lady speaking Italian-accented Mandarin. This was a very interesting place indeed and it was almost ironic that there were only a handful of Caucasian sellers.

After going a few rounds the market, asking for Pandan Leaves and Lemongrass, we were faced with the unfortunate news that there were none. We were advised to try our luck the next time by going there again very early.

A kiosk in Esquilino

We then headed to the other part of the mercato where there were bales of bling cloths, waiting to be made. This reminded me of Geylang and Sultan Mosque Street. Back in Singapore, my seamstress Mum and I would be there every now and then to buy cloth to be made into Baju Kurong.

A kiosk selling bling clothes in Esquilino

I felt sad as this will be the first year that I’d be celebrating Hari Raya without the family.

After exploring the market, walking out, one of the first thing that I spotted was this :

Indian Fast Food restaurant in Esquilino, Rome

As I love Indian food, I nudged Cart to enter. We were both very hungry from our recce. We ordered a plate of rice each with gravy and a couple of fried snacks.

Indian Fast Food restaurant in Esquilino, Rome

Indian Fast Food restaurant in Esquilino, Rome

Granted that it was not really what you’d get in Little India in Singapore, it was still decent. It eased the feeling of homesickness a little bit.

Esquilino is an interesting place. Its a bit far for Cart and I to be doing our weekly grocery shopping, but I think that we’ll visit again.

The mysterious Lemongrass and Pandan leaves

For our quest in search of Lemongrass and Pandan Leaves.

I love the Summer Sale!

While in Singapore, there is the Great Singapore Sale, in Italy, there is the summer sale. Typically, there will be a 30 – 50% discounts all around.

I was just surfing through Promod one fine day and seriously contemplating to buy some. The only thing that I feared was the infamous Italian Postal delivery being late and asking for more service charge on top of the taxes. My computer took more than 4 months to be delivered.

Imagine my pleasant surprise when I saw that there was a branch at a mall near us. And even more surprising is that Cart wanted us to go out for shopping! I found a pair of Enrico Coveri shoes that I liked and I rummaged through the Promod store for a couple of threads.

Rinaz wears Promod

I love my new clothes!

How to make ayam masak merah

Ayam masak merah is one of my favourite things to eat. Literally translated, it means Chicken cooked in red gravy. It is a robust, rich and filling food that can be eaten with practically anything – rice, bread, roti jala. This was a dish that we’d usually have every other week while back in Singapore.

Having missed my comfort food, I tried my best to find most of the ingredients and attempted to make it myself. One of the ingredients is this concentrated tomato paste. Refrain yourself from trying to brush your teeth with this

Tomato Paste, not toothpaste

However, there are some key ingredients that I can’t get here in Rome. One of them being fresh lemon-grass and I don’t even see it for sale in the Asian kiosk that I patronise.

Nevertheless, I still have a few ingredients at hand and here is an easy way to make Ayam Masak Merah. You will need :

  • Chicken (Cut into pieces)
  • Turmeric powder
  • Potatoes
  • Tomato concentrate or Tomato sauce
  • Fresh tomatoes (Diced)
  • Ginger, Garlic, Onion, Soaked dried chilli, Lemongrass (Blended together)
  • Coconut Milk

First, marinate the chicken with salt and tumeric powder and leave it to rest for at least 30 minutes.

Chicken in tumeric powder

While waiting for the chicken to be marinated, slice and fry some potato wedges.

Frying potatoes

Using the same oil, fry the chicken. In another pan, I fry the ground ginger, garlic, onion and chilli till they look ‘crispy’. Then add the tomatoes continue to fry till they look soft.

Frying ginger, garlic, onion, chilli

Now I add in the tomato concentrate and a bit of sugar. Then add in the chicken and the potato. Taste for salt.

Ayam masak merah

The final step is to add in some coconut milk to give it the rich flavour. Stir and leave to cook for a few minutes and serve with white rice.

Ayam masak merah

A delicious and hearty but relatively easy Malay dish that can be cooked in about an hour. For me, it brings back a piece of Singapore, no matter where I am 🙂

A day in Bracciano where Tomkat got married and I didnt even know it!

I was at my in law’s place when I noticed a Geography book on the table. Flipping it open, I saw various maps and was trying to spot Capri – A place where Cart and I visited some years ago.

Somewhere in the corner, my eyes were drawn to a large lake on the left which was not too far away from Rome.


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As the trip to Capri took us about 5 hours, I asked Cart how long it would take to go to Lake Bracciano. Somewhere along the conversation, Cart actually suggest that we would go there!

Hence, last Monday, being a holiday in Rome due to the Patrons Santi Pietro e Paolo, Cart and I went to lake Bracciano.

It took us about less than an hour to reach there by car. Already I was amazed to see this charming view in front of me.

Bracciano, Italy

Cart told me me that that was a common sight. In every region in Italy, the highest peak usually has a castle on it and villages surrounding it.

Bracciano, Italy

We took a short walk towards the castle. The housing area looked quite lovely with the slopes making the staircases look uneven. I quite like the old look and feel of the area.

Bracciano, Italy

We stopped by this small family run restaurant to have a quick lunch where I had a nice plate of Pasta alla Pescatora which was made of various type of seafood in tomato sauce.

Pasta Alla Pescatore

Cart on the other hand had Pasta with truffles and after our lunch, we headed to Castle Odeschalchi which was just a few minutes away by foot. The gates were closed and we realised that we needed to have a ticket to have a guided tour inside the castle.

Castello Odescalchi, Italy

It was such a beautiful place and it was easy to imagine the kings and queens walking up and down this path. The view of the lake was just breathtaking and postcard perfect.

Castello Odescalchi, Italy

It was interesting going through the castle, completely immersed in the feeling of the medieval vibe of the place. I liked looking at the furnitures on display that were actually used during those times.

Unfortunately, guests were not allowed to take pictures inside the castle, so I am unable to share it on this blog. Nevertheless, the guide was retelling about the history of the castle, and there was one that was extremely memorable to me.

Castello Odescalchi, Italy

She showed us a bedroom where the daughter of the Duke, Lady Isabella slept. It was said that she had many lovers. And after a night of passion, she would lead them to a room nearby and then push him down a well, full of spikes and blades.

Castello Odescalchi, Italy

And before we knew it, we were lead out of the castle and the door was promptly shut. While I enjoyed the tour, I wish it wasn’t so rushed.

Cart and I went back to the car and headed to the lake next, which was just a few minutes drive away. If it looked quite lovely in the map, it looks even lovelier to be seen in real life.

Castello Odescalchi, Italy

There were a number of people suntanning and taking a dip in the water. A number were boating and playing with water rides. It kind of reminded me when I was a kid when I lived in Jurong. Lakeside, and was always full of water rides.

Lago Bracciano, Italy

Its so peaceful. Even with the fairly large amount of people there, it was very tranquil just to have the wind in my face and looking at the smooth waves on the water, which by the way, is interestingly clear!

Lago Bracciano, Italy

I hugged Cartcart since Braccia means hug in Italian and as a sidenote, this is a nice site to make Abbracci cookies.

After the walk along the promenade, Cart and I decided to stop by for a gelato and that was when I spotted this :

Lago Bracciano, Italy

I didn’t know that Tom Cruise and Katie Holmes got married here. In fact, I didn’t even know that I was in the same castle where they got married. I wonder why the guide didn’t mention this to us.