Have you ever noticed that embassies, regardless of which country it is representing, are always located in the rich-people’s area?
For example, this is the Malaysian Embassy in Rome.
I was here some months ago to visit their food fair. Looks quite palatial isnt it? The insides is quite grand too. And it is located in a posh looking area of Nomentana, and all throughout the street was lines of other embassies, museums, universities and the likes.
But you dont have to travel all the way to Rome, since its practically the same in other countries – check out the Thai or the Japanese or the Australian or any other Embassy in Singapore. They are all located in posh places!
Yes, yes. I’m probably the last to realise this. But to be fair, before meeting Cart, I didn’t really had the need to go to embassies.
But anyway, I was out with Cart during the weekend to get me my Italian books for the new semester at La Feltrinelli Internazionale. which is around Piazza Repubblica, which is a nice area to explore and has the most orgasmic dessert shoppe nearby.
I am a little ambitious this semester – taking two levels at the same time and am already feeling a little overwhelmed.
The amount of Italian textbooks I have in a span of 2 years
Oh! Speaking of Italian, I really have a rant about “speaking Italian to people who pretends not to understand you” which I think I’ll write about more this friday. Anyways! Cart and I decided to take a walk around the area. We passed by a church, and then a very long line of people queuing to watch a movie premiere and then we stumbled upon the American Embassy.
And with the sun about to set, glowing in the golden rays, it heightened the poshness of the building. And all through the street, were lines and lines of luxury hotels such as the Westin Excelsior, and elegant looking restaurants. Naturally, I walked over to look at the prices to see if they match up with the ones at Alfredo
Cart was telling me of how during the 60’s, this particular road was frequented by loads of actors and actresses and was the place to be to be seen at the time. You could see personalities such as Anita Ekberg, Federico Fellini and Marcello Mastroianni (Not be confused by this guy) driving by. It must have been extremely glamorous back then.
By the way, these three personalities were the star of the acclaimed, La Dolce Vita.
Ok, I have to be honest here, though I havent watch the movie, moreoever, the scene is kind of annoying to me with Anita acting so bimboishly and Marcello following her around like an enamoured puppy. Its just too much. Bleargh.
Nevertheless, it does ooze glamour, and I like seeing the scenery and spotting out the landmarks that I’ve been to.
Makes me kinda sad that all we Singaporeans have here in Rome is a small consulate (which isn’t even run by Singaporeans, I have to add)
Sidenote : I spotted this along the road. What’s this all about?
“These magnets are extremely expensive. At least 8 euro”
I enjoy attending conferences and listening to different ideas. Some months back, I attended a barcamp in Rome but I thought that it had a long way to go in the organization. Coupled with the fact that there was a TEDx in KL as well as in Singapore, I was feeling quite jealous.
Luckily, I found that there was a TEDx in Italy! It was all the way in Como though, and that’s about 700 km from Rome so I persuaded Cart to join me. Jerrick decided to join us too when I told him that I would be heading to Milan. And we were all excited about our trip.
November finally arrived and the day before the event, we departed after breakfast and started on our road-trip.
As it was autumn, Cart and I both were enjoying the scenery and colours of the tree leaves – gold, red, green. It was really lovely. And slowly, after some hours, we saw the landscape start to change.
Since we were heading towards to north, where it is colder, it became foggier and foggier. I was fascinated by how misty it was.
And finally at length, after about 6 hours, we finally reached the motorway exit and paid the toll. It was about 33.70 euro.
From this point onwards, we had to rely on Cart’s GPS function on his E72 since we are both not too familiar with the area. It was quite challenging because for some reason as the GPS did not recognize some of the streets that we wanted to go to. And many times, it wasn’t clear at which road to turn to because it didn’t show us that there were multiple lanes. That frustrated the both of us.
It took some tries to get to the right path. Nevertheless, we finally got to central Milan and I observed that there were several nuances in the architecture which gave it a different feel compared to Rome.
For example the roads looked quite different. I’ve yet to see a brick formation like this one below here anywhere in Rome.
As well as the bus stop, because they were run by different services. In Rome, the public transportation is run by ATAC while in Milan it is run by ATM instead. I used to assume that it would be the same throughout the country.
At long last, we reached the City Residence Milano Bed and breakfast where we’ll be putting up during the weekend. I really liked how cozy and inviting and clean it was.
The first thing that you see when you enter, is a table with a basket of condiments and food ready to be used. And right beside it is a fully usable kitchen with cutleries and cooking utensils all ready in the cupboard. And there was a fridge stocked with the basics, like milk, a large bottle of water and juice ready.
These additional food was not listed in the website, but I thought that it was a thoughtful gesture.
And walking through, the room actually didn’t feel as cramped as it looked like in the website. And it was surprisingly roomy, with loads of places to store our things.
On every bed, there were towels and slippers each. The beds used foam mattresses instead of spring which could take a little getting used to, but nevertheless it was comfortable.
Walking up the stairs was the loft where Cart and I slept in. It was surprisingly warmer than the room below considering that the heater wasn’t turned on. It wasn’t bad for us since it was autumn and the temperatures were cooler, but I cannot imagine how it would be like for guests coming in during the summer.
My small qualm about the bnb was that the bathroom was a tad bit too small. Poor Cartcart couldn’t move about much while showering.
And the bnb can get a tad bit noisy since it was right next to the road and very close to the railway tracks. I didn’t hear it much though because Cart and I were dead tired from the road trip and practically comatose the entire night.
Another thing is that there was no wifi! The only way we could connect to the internet was to use the ethernet cable provided. It was tough with all 4 of us being social media addicts but nevertheless, it was a cozy place and hopefully we’d definitely stay here again the next time we were in Milano.
After dumping our baggage, we headed out to the metro to meet some of the Singaporeans in Milan. I was keen to meet them and hear what they think about living there.
Unfortunately, we were quite late. It didn’t help that it took us a while to get used to the metro lines because we were unfamiliar with the place.
Nevertheless, we got to the bar where the meeting was safely, and I managed to meet the group. It was really lovely to get to know them.
Like Patricia! I finally got to meet Patricia! She’s right there at the left end. We’ve been talking to each other in the facebook group and so far is the Singaporean that I know of that has been living in Milan the longest. I enjoyed listening to her point of view about getting a job in Milan and of her life there.
The rest were mostly students studying in the Milano university and I met a lovely young lady. She was recounting about how tough it was finding a long term job, and many companies prefer to recruit interns for a short term basis.
And there was one guy below here who is taking a course on designing cars. He reminds me so much of my blogger friend Herry.
Not too long after, Jerrick and his friends Joey and Marta arrived. And after a quick chat, we said our goodbyes to the rest of the Singaporean group and headed back to the bnb.
I was already stoned at this point of time and fainted on the bed in exhaustion.
The next day, Cart and I got up early to head to Como where the Italian TEDx was hosted. Como was about an hour drive from central Milan and again, we had to rely on the GPS to take us there.
It was such a chilly but pretty day, and I could not help but to see the beautiful landscape and the autumn colours all around. But we were both nervous as we were starting to be late, and the GPS didn’t give us a clear indicator to go to. We missed the right roads for at least 3 times.
At long last, we finally reached the Politecnico di Milano with just 5 minutes to the start of the talk. Phew! We made it! We quickly got our passes and picked our seats and not too long after, the talks started.
The conference was a very interesting experience. All in all there were about 15 speakers in total each ranging in different topics with most of them in Italian. I’ve still got a long way to go to becoming more fluent in Italian and while I could understand 50% of the words that they said, it was still like a jigsaw puzzle to me.
Nevertheless, for the ones that I could understand, I thought it was very fascinating. Like the talk from Tan Le with a device that can read our brainwaves.
During our break time, Cart and I had time to explore around the area for a bit. There was a silk and design school nearby and I thought that the students here are so lucky to be able to go to school with such a lovely view of the hill.
Being more up north, and bound to be colder, even scooters have their own mittens. This is definitely useful.
And then we went back to the conference for the rest of the speakers. The TEDx conference ended at about 5.30pm. And all in all, I enjoyed the talk although I do hope that the location will be rotated to move around different parts of Italy. The past two years its been held in Como and I’m definitely looking forward to TEDx Roma or somewhere closer 🙂
We then headed off towards Lake Como to meet up with the rest of the group. Unfortunately, because it was autumn, night falls at about 5 pm and it was already dark when we left the polytechnic.
Nevertheless, I fell in love with Como immediately upon reaching there. I can see why George Clooney loves this place too. It’s so charming there! There was a large lake, with shimmering lights across it. And though it was a little like Bracciano, you can tell that the inhabitants take pride in the area – it looked very well taken cared of.
I just wished that it didn’t get dark so soon as I take better pictures in daylight.
I see a building with A VOLTA on top of it. This was probably a monument for Alessandro Volta, the developer of the electric cells. He was born in Como. This building reminds me of a silly joke that Cart told me some while back.
Once upon a time a father asked his son, “How did your test go?”
And the son replied, It went fine, but I couldn’t get the right answer for “What is the first name of the inventor of the electric cell, last name volta”
And upon hearing this, the dad looked incredulous and angry. He stormed, “How many times do I have to tell you, its JONTRA!”
We then had a quick walk around the square and I saw a number of men in green alpine hats carrying musical instruments and I got curious to know what was going on. There were more of them as we walked towards the duomo.
Cart told me that these men were helpers to the duomo, much like the Swiss guards for the the Saint Peter’s square in Rome. We didn’t spend too much time in there though as there was a mass going on.
As the four of us were quite peckish, we adjoured to find a restaurant. Somehow the area gave me the Clark Quay feel with the rows of restaurants next to the river.
We chose a random restaurant for our dinner. It was a nice looking place with a lovely decor.
Unfortunately the food to me was bland and forgettable, but the most unfortunate part was that we found an unwanted denizen in one of our food.
I didn’t really have a good impression of the food in Como but nevertheless, the beautiful view of the lake made up for it and we spent the rest of the evening taking a stroll and enjoying our gelato before heading back to the bnb.
I think I am enamoured with Como. Even the touts were milder here, and they go away when you shake your head at them unlike their more persistent Roman counterparts.
The next day. It was already our last day there. Woah, time passed by really fast and we only had half a day left in Milan.
I felt a bit unsatisfied that I didn’t even get to see the major monuments in Milan. At least the Duomo. Who goes to Milan without seeing the Duomo?! Joey and Jerrick had already seen it while Cart and I were at TEDx and they both wanted to go shopping.
I was feeling a bit torn. But al right then. Shopping it is. And we said our goodbyes to the bnb and to Milano.
I was sad to leave Milan and all its charms. Milan must have been sad to see us leave too.
Drizzles started to turn into rain and it was super misty outside. I asked Joey and Jerrick if it was the same for them back in UK, and they replied no, it never got this thick.
We headed towards this place called Serravalle, which is about an hour drive from central Milan. Its a designer outlet like Castel Romano, only bigger in size and housed with more brands.
I saw brands like Prada, Ferragamo, Bulgari, Ferrari and more.
We went into many different high end stores. I wasn’t feeling it till we went into Dolce and Gabbana. I didn’t care much for their clothes but when I laid my eyes on this, my heart just melted.
This was the limited edition 2009 Fall/Winter collection. And this was the most beautiful shoe I have ever seen in my whole life. that It’s so gorgeous!
Only thing was that it was bloody 700 euro even after a 50% discount. I can’t afford it
Cart must have seen how upset I felt, so he went off to buy a bag for me in another store, “It might not be the same thing, but I hope you’ll like it” And I do! So sweet of him
Not before too long, we had to rush to send Jerrick and Joey back to Malpensa. Cart was very worried that they both would miss their flight since it was getting close to 2 hours before their flight so he drove them there directly and we said our goodbyes.
And then it was our time to back to Rome. Seven antagonising hours from Malpensa to head back home. I had to continuously shift around to avoid back aches and kept looking at Cart to make sure that he didn’t fall asleep on the road. It was midnight when we finally reached home and by then I think we both fainted even before reaching the bed after the long journey.
This is probably the most tiring one that I’ve ever taken so far, even more than the vespa club road trip to Malacca, even more than our flight from Dubai to Singapore. Nevertheless, I had a lovely time and would love to go again, longer the next time so we could finally see the different sights of Milan.
Lately, I’ve quite a number of emails asking me about travelling to Italy. Its wierd, because I’m not such an expert at travelling, but I’ll try my best to help and answer these frequently asked questions
Now that you’ve decided to visit Italy, Rome in specific …
When are the best times to visit Rome?
Italy, as well as the rest of Europe, has its own charms in each seasons. Because Singapore is of an equatorial climate where the temperature is usually consistent the whole year round, winter could be interesting for those who’s never experienced it before. Or summer could be great because the temperatures then would be quite similar to Singapore, moreover it could be an experience to hang out with the Italians at the beach.
But personally for me, I think the best times would be April-May for Spring or September-October for Autumn. During these months, the temperatures are not too hot, not too cold. A comfortable 22-25 degrees and it does not rain too much during these times. Moreover the colours and vibrancy are very interesting to see.
Which airline do I book with?
The best times to book for airline tickets would be to book about 6 months in advance. The earlier the better because it will be a higher chance that ticket prices could be cheaper.
So far the best rates that I got from Singapore to Rome two ways is 1.3k SGD including taxes via KLM and Emirates. But sometimes it is helpful to wait till when there are airline promotions like the SIA’s yearly promo because prices fluctuates depending on the day and month that you book so its a gamble. So don’t feel too bad if you find that the prices go down the next day. But you could also try to do a search through Zuji to see what the average rate is like.
If not, you might want to try to wait till the last moments while booking or try lastminute.com. This is because there could be a chance that someone could cancel their booking and you could get a flight ticket for way cheaper although there will be a big risk that you wont get the dates that you want. Thus only use this option if you’re not on a schedule.
What hotels do you recommend to stay?
That’s a hard question because I don’t really have experience in this department since I live with Cart in our apartment … In fact, when Cart first came to Singapore, I was clueless at what hotel to recommend him.
But in any case, you might want to take a look at tripadvisor for tips on where to stay. In fact, I used this website to give me some hints on where to stay for our trip to Milan. What’s nice about this website is that the lodgings are rated by real people who has personally visited these places and most of them give their unbiased review.
For instance, I was considering on doing a short vacation in Cameron Highlands and while doing my research, I stumbled upon an online advertisement and looking through the site, I thought that this could be a nice place to stay. From the pictures, it looked so lush and charming
Unfortunately, there were so many bad reviews about it online, now I’m thinking twice about visiting it. Thus appearances can be deceiving! It is also useful to do an in depth search online through blog searches for other personal experiences.
On the other hand, you could support my friend Eu Chai. He’s travelled around Italy extensively made a website with a list of lodgings.
By the way, one thing to take note of, is that the average rate for a night in a hotel is at least 80 euro a night. So if you are on a budget, I’d suggest that you try a bed and breakfast. I like bed and breakfasts because its a flat rate and you could divide the cost by how many people are in your group.
Lets say a bed and breakfast room costs 120 euro a night, and there are 4 people in your group, you only pay 30 euro per person. I think that’s a good value if you’re not too fussy about your accommodations. Personally for me, I prefer B&Bs as its a better value since I’ll be spending my time exploring rather than just staying in all the time. Just make sure to keep your valuables safe and close with you as there are risks of pickpockets and gypsies in Central Rome.
OR if you’re in a serious serious budget, you might want to try youth hostels or even couch surfing. Couch surfing basically means that you can stay at someone’s house and sleep on whatever spare space they have available like the sofa or the floor. It’s not glamorous, and you would have no privacy, but on the other hand, its a good way to have an in depth view of a local’s way of life.
Although, by doing this method, it is very important that you need to do this with the utmost discrepancy. Check the person and see if this person has a high rating and experience doing this. You wouldn’t want to risk staying with a psycho.
How do I get around in Rome?
Now that you’re already landed in Rome, and you are ready to move around. What do you do?
The easiest way is to take the taxi. Its very convenient, although I don’t really recommend it so much because it can be quite pricey. Even with a legit taxi, one way trip alone from the airport to your lodgings alone can cost at least 50 euro. Moreover there are too many horror stories where unlicensed taxis totally cheat off unsuspecting tourists.
On the other hand, while public transportation takes longer, its more affordable. The train connecting from the airport to the city centre costs about 5 euro. And when you’re in the city centre you are free to travel with unlimited public buses for 90 minutes as well as underground train tickets going for 1.50 euro one way.
These tickets can be bought from the subway station itself, as well as tabbacchi shops or newspaper kiosks around Rome,
There are also tourists tickets that you could purchase for unlimited rides. Just always remember to validate your ticket just before boarding.
However, do be aware that there are chances that there are frequent public transportation strikes in Rome. And if that happens and you need someone to drive you around, contact me if you are travelling 3 people and below.
Another way that I really like is by taking the open bus. With this bus, you could have an overview of all the monuments in Rome for about 15 euro and when something catches your fancy, you stop and explore. This ticket is valid for 2 days which is more or less enough to explore the main monuments.
What should I visit in Rome?
There are heaps to things to see here in Rome. I advice you to plan your route and schedule in advance because it can get quite tiring to try to visit all in one go.
If not, here are some places that you must not miss when you are visiting Rome.
1. Saint Peter’s Square
San Pietro is a monumental building where the pope lives. Its so large and tall that you could stack up at least 50 humans to reach the top. And if you are lucky enough to head there on Sunday morning, it would be fantastic as you could see the Pope in action during a mass. Click here to read my blog post on Saint Peter’s Square
2. Castel Sant Angelo
Castel Sant Angelo is a fortress which has a long pathway which is connected directly to the Saint Peter’s Square. If you are here during August, the caretakers has interesting night activities. Click here to read my blog post on Castel Sant Angelo.
3. Piazza Navona
If you’ve watched Angels and Demons, you might remember the scene where the assassin tries to drown one of he cardinals in one of the fountain in Piazza Navona. In real life, it would be impossible though because the fountain is so shallow all he needs to do is to stand up.
Nevertheless, there is a vibrancy here, with the place full of artists, drawing as well as performance, there is always something to see. It’s most lovely to be here in December for Christmas and the Befana festival.
And while you are in the area, the Pantheon isn’t too far away and you could have a slow while eating gelato on your way there. Click here to read my blog post on Piazza Navona.
4. Vittorio Emanuele
The Vittorio Emanuele monument, also lovingly called the typewriter by the locals here is a building to honour the first king as well as the unknown soldiers from the first world war. It is also the location used in the amazing race season 1, episode 6.
When you are there, its just a straight walk towards other interesting sights such as the Colosseum and the Fontana di trevi. Don’t forget to throw a coin there so that you’d come back to Rome!
Apart from San Paolo, San Clemente is probably the oldest church in Rome. To me, this place is interesting, as below this church is another church and below that church is a house built in the 4th century. Many layers like a lasagna.
Anyway, there are so many monuments in Rome that its not possible to write them all in one go. So you might also want to check out my Italy tagged post to read about my thoughts on the different places in Rome and Italy that I’ve explored 🙂
If you are up to it, why not hang out with a local for a drink or dinner with the Singaporeans in Italy and Malaysians in Italy (or any other group where you come from) We are a very friendly and outgoing bunch and you’d get another perspective of Italy which is beyond the touristic manuals.
I want to go shopping! Where can I get the best deals in Rome?
The best times to go shopping in Italy is during January and July for the sale season. During these times, items can go from 30 – 50% off. While most of the items are old stocks, quite a number of them are of the newer items.
These are a couple of clothes I got from the summer sale.
You could save even more if you visit an outlet. One of the most famous one is Castel Romano.
I think its not really that accessible since its kind of out of Rome so I didn’t see any connecting public transportation so far but if you’re looking for deals on branded items, this is the place to go.
Again, if you need someone to drive you and your group is 3 people and below, just contact me.
What are some of the food that I should try here in Rome?
This is a tough one because of my religious belief, there are some food that I cannot consume and have to be prepare by myself.
But nevertheless, while in Rome, there are some food that you MUST try like pizza margherita, pasta cacio pepe, gelato and Italian coffee.
And here are a few of the places that I absolutely love :
The great thing about pizze in Italy is that most of them uses wood oven which really affects the taste of a pizza. While there are many pizzeria out there, for whole pizzas, I really love Rosso Pomodoro. In the picture above, that’s a size for one by the way.
And for pizza al taglio, where you can choose your pizza by weight, my very favourite would be Eligio (Viale Villa Pamphili 46) as well as Il Secchio e L’olivaro. Everything is freshly made, and you can taste how flavourful each slice is.
There are many gelaterie in Rome, but I think the place that you must try would be Tony Gelateria on account that while the place looks modest, the gelato is divine. Every friend that we’ve introduced to here absolutely adores it, once they’ve given it a try.
There are a lot of wonderful food establishments, but do be aware that there is an increasing amount of tourist traps such as this 20 euro alfredo.
If you are are keen on trying Italian coffee, Illy and Lavazza are the top brand coffee here and you cant go wrong with any bar using that. And there are also many types that you might want to try. One of my favourite coffee so far is the Marocchino.
This is made of one part espresso, one part steamed milk and a bit of cocoa powder or chocolate syrup on top of it. And its really really good.
Feel free to go trough my food fascinations tags for the latest updates of the food that I’ve eaten here.
Any other advice you could give me?
Like any other experiences when travelling overseas be it in Italy or any other parts of the world, always keep yourself as well as your valuables safe and close to you. Most part of Rome are nice, but there are a number of touts in the city centre. So you need to be vigilant.
To avoid being cheated, sometimes you need to be fierce and stand your ground. But in the worst case scenario, find out about your country’s embassy contact. This is the contact for the Singapore consulate in Rome.
You might also want to learn a bit of basic Italian phrases. While many areas in the city centre knows English, generally people are warmer when you speak their native language. This bbc website is pretty good.
And wear comfortable shoes. Rome’s city centre is full of cobble stones and it just doesn’t make sense to be wearing high heels.
But the most important tip is to have fun! Take your time exploring and absorbing the area and take loads of pictures for memory.
So there are some of my tips. It is probably not complete, as I still continue to explore and live in Rome. But if there are anyone who needs more help, or have any suggestions, please feel free to comment in the comment box below or contact me.
If you find this article useful, do forward this post to your friends 🙂
Cart and I had a lovely afternoon, roaming around Barberini yesterday. Its an interesting place in central Rome with loads to interesting architecture. The first time that I’ve been here was last year during a Singaporean meet, but little did I know that there were so much more to see around the area. A good way, now that I think about it, to see an overview of the area is to take an open bus, and then drop down to have a stroll in the area which you fancy.
Like this area here called the Presidenza Della Repubblica, where the Italian president lives.
Insert gratuitous camwhore shot
In any case, Cart and I were in Barberini mainly to visit Palazzo Barberini. As its namesake, Palazzo Barberini is a palace that used to be owned by the Barberini family. What was was interesting to see that their insigna was the bee, and indeed, we saw a lot of the logo strewn around as we walked through the area.
And oh gosh, it was a beautiful building. I’m not too well versed at the type of architecture this is, but its so luxurious! I can only imagine how the royalties were walking through all these opulence. Its gorgeous! In fact, when Cart and I reached there, there was a bride and groom walking in for their bridal photoshoot themselves.
I can only imagine the groom thinking to himself, “Woah! What a nice building!” Or something to that effect while looking at it
And as we walking through the luxe marble staircase, I am just enamoured. How beautiful is that? I feel like I am princess fantaghiro! All that’s missing is my medieval outfit and my giggling maid-helpers. Hehehe.
Does this look unreal like a painting or is it just me? I keep nudging Cartcart, this looks more like Secondlife than it is to real life, and all he said in solemn response, “No, it couldn’t be. Not enough prims”
And as you walked past main entrance, you would reach the garden outside. As you can see from the picture, its a lot of walking to get to the garden from the main building. But to me, its worth the walk.
As soon as you reach the top of the staircase, you’ll find an adorable looking build that looks like a hobbit‘s house. Or a gardener’s shed according to Cart.
The area looks a bit wild, with the grass growing rather long, probably because at the time we were there, it was already autumn, I guess people generally dont want to do double work since the plants will go into dormant stage soon. Nevertheless, the garden looked so charming. And with the (albeit empty) greenhouse, it was so charmingly European.
I spotted out something interesting, while walking around the garden.
Cant see it? Well, here it is, magnified. Spot something interesting here? :-p
I swear, I’m not being a nitpick, but Italy is so charmingly full of Engrish 😀
In any case, I love this place. So royale. But I’m not sure if I would be able to live through the same thing though, what with all the walking, the climbing stairs and all … Royalties probably dont need to have a gymnastic membership from all these natural workout, I imagine that they will be fit just by going from one place to another!
But apart from the beautiful building, inside it houses the Galleria Nazionale d’Arte Antica, an art gallery. If there are anyone who are in Rome and enjoys the arts, I think that this is a good place to visit. For 5 euro, its pretty affordable compared to all the other touristy places and you could see a plentiful of Italian artists.
I cant snap pictures of the display inside, but here are some of the ones that I can remember to google-image.
One of the painter’s that I’m starting to appreciate is Caravaggio. His style of painting was very unique during that time because of the dark background but with the light focusing the main character. Caravaggio also liked to use people from the working class as his models, hence his paintings would tend to have little details like dirt on the fingernails.
This painting below is called, Narcissus. It is about a guy who falls in love with his own image. The idea is kind of bleargh to be honest, loving yourself a little too much :p
And this is called, Giuditta che taglia la testa a Oloferne – Judith cuts the Head of Holofernes. Woah, this is brutal man.
This picture below is done by El Greco, to me, the colouring and the style looks very modern. Thus, its impressive that this piece was made during the 1570s! Indeed, there were several pieces that I saw yesterday that looked like it was painted in today’s style.
And this is a piece done by Tintoretto. Cart kept saying that Tintoretto would have been one of the Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles – because he was just as important to Italian art like Michelangelo, Leonardo, Donatello and Raphaello. Its just that he was probably still in Martial Arts school
There were so much to see! I don’t even remember most of them now! On hindesight, I should have scribbled the names of the artists in a notebook to learn more about them later or find more of their works online. Ah shucks! Next time hopefully 🙂
To end this blog post, I’m going to put up an unrelated picture of me.
Hey, its my blog after all and I love lego!
Sidenote : This coming weekend, Cart and I are planning to go to Galleria Borghese. If you are in Rome and would like to join us, do feel free to contact me! 🙂
Yesterday Cart, my friend Alessandra and I went to Roma Sposa to have a look see. Roma Sposa is a wedding fair with about 350 different booths and wedding representatives. Although Cart and I are already married, it’s nice to observe the trends here in Italy.
Being already Autumn, it was quite a chilly day already when we reached Palazzo Dei Congressi. Temperatures are already dropping to 18 degrees Celsius here in Rome and I’ve already started to wear my boots, turtlenecks, wooly jackets and whatnots.
The fair was was easy to spot because of the huge banner at the front of the Palazzo. There were so many promoters outside, hawking around with their sharp eyes.
The entry was free and it was very crowded the time when we reached there.
When we entered the palazzo proper to see the exhibitions, there were so many things to see such as the brides’ dresses. There were so many varieties! There were the traditional white ones, some lacy ones, some of a mixture of denim, some very embellished outfits.
I prefer simple but elegant looking ones like this one
I adore the bead-works around this dress, as well as the beautiful soft gold all around it.
There was also a wedding fashion catwalk.
That’s one the designer walking out after her models showed off her collection.
I also saw a couple of booths showcasing their art of cosmetics and hair.
I like the design of the invite cards. These ones above remind me of the traditional hand-made paper from Bevagna.
We also saw wedding favours for guests to keep home. Personally for me, I prefer gifts that are functional.
Like this adorable salt and pepper shaker and a container to keep the toothpick in.
And these are stationary sets you could use for writing notes.
There is also another interesting custom in Italy where you give these small round sweets to your guests.
In Italy, this is called Confetti. Not to be confused with the white paper things that we throw during parties. Inside is a sugared almond and covered with any flavours ranging from Banana, Strawberry, Caramel to Whiskey, ricotta and pears. It can range from different colours symbolising the type of anniversary with white being the most common for weddings.
And it will be placed into these containers called the Bomboniere for guests. Commonly, there will be 5 pieces in each to symbolise health, wealth, happiness, fertility and long life.
I saw several displays for the table setting which was created especially for a wedding lunch or dinner. They looked very intricate with the special cutlery, and bowls and decorations. Some ranging from the classic and some modern.
Most of them look very opulent. And apart from table decorations, there will sure to be flower decoration and food artwork.
These fruit carvings were incredibly intricate!
And not to mention, the wedding cake. While I prefer my cakes to be simpler, this display is a work of art in my opinion. I particularly like the Piazza Spagna cake display.
This was the Castel Sant’Angelo.
And this is Piazza San Pietro.
No wedding would be complete without the photographers and the videographers.
After going around the exhibitions, on average, the package deal is 1.7 k Euro here in Rome. Many of them were quite talented, and I looked through the different styles that they showcased. Some of them quirky, some of them quite retro looking.
And who can forget the DJ’s and music.
And to get to your wedding lunch or dinner in style, you could rent a stylish car, modern or classic or a limousine.
But lets not forget that no weddings would be complete without the wedding rings
It was interesting to see that the wedding rings are probably the most simple styled of all. Just a simple band :p
So lets see, according to the prices from fair, to get a wedding celebration in Italy :
Wedding outfits = 1000 x 2 people x 2 events = 4000 Euro
Photography + Video = 1.700 Euro
Makeup + Hair = 300 Euro
Deejay + Music = 300 Euro
Wedding Dinner in a nice restaurant = 50 x 300 guests = 15.000 Euro
Table Decoration + Flowers = 200
Gifts for the guests = 20 x 300 guets = 6.000 Euro
Wedding Cake = 200 Euro
Wedding Rings = 200 x 2 People = 400 Euro
Limousine rental = 300 Euro
Grand estimate = 28400 Euro!
That’s quite expensive to get married. Nevertheless, it was an interesting and enlightening afternoon at the Roma Sposa wedding fair. I quite enjoyed myself.
The only thing is, going around from booths to booths, we were all shoved with pamphlets, books, and stuff whether we wanted it or not. And it was so heavy! Such a waste of paper.
If you liked this post, you might be interested in our wedding ceremony :
Cart and I will be going to Milan in November. Though Milan is mostly known as a fashion capital, we’d probably have to give that, as well as the Milan fashion week, a miss.
We’ll be in Milan mainly because I’m a fan of the TED conferences, and to my pleasant surprise, I found out that there will be a TEDx at Lake Como.
TED conferences are about sharing ideas on changing the world, and topics could range from technology to culture. Initially, these conferences are only limited to a select group, with entry fee said to cost a shocking 6 k USD and limited to just one thousand people, but thankfully it’s been opened for viewing online for the rest of us.
By the way, if you havent watched any TED conference yet, do start with this one by Majora Carter about sustainable urban areas. I find it very inspiring!
TEDx on the other hand is an independently organized events by communities to host a TED like event. It’s usually free, but it doesn’t mean that it’s less capable though. Ever since I’ve attended several independent talks in Singapore such as Interesthink, Nexus and Unconference, I’ve learnt not think too lowly of independent talks.
But apart from attending the TEDx, of course, I’m looking forward to exploring the rest of Milano. I’m sure there will be plenty of lovely things to see. Firstly the beautiful Lake Como, made very famous from Star Wars episode 2.
Maybe we’d visit La Scala, which is said to be the most renowned opera and ballet theatre in the world.
We probably wouldn’t be seeing Leonardo Da Vinci’s Last Supper. Even though it’s months to November, it seems that regular entry tickets are all sold out till January. The only tickets available are through agencies, which charges you 50 euro when it’s normally 6 euro to see a museum.
But anyway, I’m sure that no trip to Milano would be complete without visiting the Duomo, one of the biggest cathedral in the world.
Since I’m heading back to Singapore in mid December, I thought that I should take the opportunity to make use of my Singaporean subsidization and have a medical check up like dental. Besides, I’m way behind my recommended two times a year check up.
Hence, yesterday, I made an online appointment for a dental checkup and today, I got a reply that I was scheduled for the 1st December.
I wasn’t too surprised though, since my experience with the Singaporean public health services has always had a long waiting time. A month at the very least.
How it works is like this, you do a walk in to any polyclinic nearest to you. After registration, you go to a consultation room and ask the doctor for a referral if you wanted to visit a specialist. And they’ll make the arrangements and give you a letter and about a month later, you’ll see the specialist.
Its quite a lengthy process. But its not too bad in the end as the fees including the medicine are subsidized, hence it was more affordable as compared to going to a private clinic.
But in anycase, speaking of medical services, I thought that I’d share with you my experience with the medical services here in Rome. Well, granted that it was just a one time experience, so I’m definitely not an expert at this. But despite the horror stories that I’ve heard online, my experience wasn’t all that bad.
Middle of last year, I had an irritant in my left eye. Initially I thought that it was a small grain of dust in my eye. So I beared the irritating feeling. But when the discomfort persisted for days and didn’t go away during the weekend, I got alarmed. Peering in the mirror, I found a white dot near the edge of the iris. Cart started to feel anxious and dragged me to visit a hospital.
I was surprised. Was there a working clinic during the weekend? Practically nothing is open during the weekend in Italy, especially towards the evening onwards. But Cart told me that there are hospitals that are open till late for emergency issues.
it was evening time when we reached the Ospedale Regionale Oftalmico. You take a number queue and sit in the waiting room for about 15 – 30 minutes. After which, you have a person check you and see how severe your ailment is. He also fills in the personal particulars and then gives you a new queue number.
What was interesting is that the queue number is colour coded. Red for the highly serious cases, followed by yellow, then green and then white, which is the least serious and a longer waiting time.
And back to the waiting room we go.
Eventually, about an hour and several cups of coffee and hot chocolate later, we were finally examined by a doctor. He did a diagnostic, examining the eye under a light. And then a swab on my eye for a sample, dropped in an ointment and finally put a bandage and said that I had Corneal Abscess. Finally he gave us a list of medical prescription and asked me to come back for follow up checkup.
By the time we left the hospital, it was already night time, but luckily there were still a few pharmacies which was open. (Pharmacies and clinics are strangely, not in the same building here) Cart went in and bought the prescribed medicines.
About a week later, I was back at the eye hospital, during the day this time, bringing with me the contact lenses that I was using the week that I had the eye irritant. After about an hour of waiting, we saw the doctor and he diagnosed from the swab that it was a germ in my eye, but because it was close to the cornea, it was harder for it to fade away as opposed to dirt going in the white part of the eye.
In any case, I continued with the medication to which, in no time, I found out that I had an eerily fascinating large pupil, just like a cat’s eye at night. The bad side is that I was very photosensitive. Too much light made me feel extremely uncomfortable. But eventually the spot went away.
And some time later, we had the lab results from the doctor. My contact lenses were germ free hence it was still a mystery as to how I had the white dot.
But what is interesting that I’ve noticed is that apart from the medication, we didn’t have to pay at the time. And I’m not even an Italian. Cart tells me that, this is how it was practised in Europe – every person, regardless of their nationality gets a chance to be treated. It would be bad to turn away a non European sick person, who will in turn infect others.
Initially when Sylvia suggested that I write about this topic, I thought that it would be simple seeing how there were so many famous Italian stereotypes. I mean, we’ve all heard about it. Italians are this and they are that …
But the more I thought about it, the harder it was to write because most of the stereotypes are based off the Italian-American community. And shows like Rocky, The Godfather, Saturday Night Fever, The Sopranos as well as Jersey Shore are definitely not helping.
Even innocent games like Super Mario plays on the Italian stereotype. And interestingly enough, it orginated from Japan.
It’s-a me! Mario!
But in any case, at the top of my head, I’ll try to recount a few popular misconceptions about Italians.
Myth 1 : All Italians have dark hair and olive skin
This is my Romualdo from the classic movie, “Cave of the Golden rose“. He’s very good looking isn’t he? He I’ve put his picture here as he fits the description of a typical Italian.
For a long time, I’ve the impression Italians typically have dark hair and tanned, olive skin. Hence, when I see natural red heads, sometimes I’d quip to Cartcart, “Is he Italian? He doesn’t seem Italian to me” and Cart would explain to me that since Italy is an amalgam of population, areas up north are closer to countries such as Switzerland and Austria and hence would have paler skin and lighter eyes and hair. While areas down south are closer to the Mediterranean, hence the darker skin and dark hair.
In fact, there is a whole melting pot going on in Italy since the 1930’s. Thanks to globalization there are many migrants settling down in Italy and starting their own family and children. Increasingly I’ve witnessed Black-Italians, Chinese-Italians, Arab-Italians, Filipina-Italians … the list goes on.
If blessed be that Cart and I would have kids of our own, we’d have a Matalian perhaps. Malay+Italian.
But after living in Italy for the past one and a half year, I’ve yet to see it being served in any restaurants, trattoria or osteria. And Cart would passionately tell me that pasta and meatballs are two separate foods. The closest thing is probably the Pasta al ragú which uses grounded beef in tomato sauce, but never shaped as a meatball.
Speaking of which, I’ve yet to see any chicken being cooked in pasta. Nor Fetttucine Alfredo. And also peperoni means bell peppers in Italy not spicy cured sausage slices.
Myth 3 : Italian men are womanizers
Well, mostly this man who thinks that he is a stallion.
Its true that Italians are very open in showing their affections. All the kissing and the hugging. There are times when I cant even get through a journey without at least seeing one public display of affection where the guy pulls the girl’s hand and kissing it, smooching the girl, hugging the girl and others.
And many a times if you are a woman and walking alone, a big chance you’ll have an Italian man flirting with you. They’ll back off respectfully though if you are not interested.
Myth 4 : Italian men has an unhealthy obsession with their mothers
There are a number of Mama’s boys in Italy and they are termed as, “Mammone”.
There are a huge 80% of Italian men above 30 years old who still live with their parents. And while there are some people who might scoff and find the entire idea as unfathomable, to still have their mothers to wash and clean for them as well as the lack of privacy and independence, the biggest reasoning as to why Italians stick with their parents for so long is mainly because of how expensive housing are. Thus they’d need some time to save up.
This house alone which is not too far from where we live, costs at least 500k euro. That’s quite a lot of money for the regular person.
Myth 5 : All Italians ride gondola and sing O Sole Mio
I was watching this interesting show about how Napolitana pizza is made. And towards the end of the show, I innocently asked Cartcart, “Why are they playing O Sole Mio? Isn’t it a Venezia song?”
Cart started to burst into peals of laughter. Several moments later when he’s calmed down, he explained to me.
Cart : You’ve fallen into the biggest Italian fallacy that when you sit in a gondola, the boatman will sing this song to you
Me : You mean, its not from Venezia?
Cart : Oh no! In fact the lyrics of the song is in Napoli accent! Haha!
—
Alright, so those were my top 5 Italian stereotypes. I’ll update this page if I can think of more. Do you know of any others? Do share
The first time I saw the gay village banner, I was amused.
Though the name sounds dubious, turns out that gay village is more like a music event from June till September where DJ’s are invited to perform and people just enjoy themselves. Kind of like WOMAD
But the first time I saw this gay pride banner, I was stunned.
Mainly because I didn’t expect a country where the main religion is Roman Catholics to be so open about events such as these.
It looked pretty fun though and so festive! With so many people dressing up, a plentiful of cross dressers, it kind of reminds me of Thailand. We couldn’t stop because we were rushing to use the open bus before the services ends. I feel really bad that I missed it.
I even saw a tall one, all dressed up glamourously with a “Miss Italia” sash. I badly wanted a picture with her! Instead, all I could snap was is this lousy blur picture because the bus was moving.
