Creepy or romantic?

I don’t normally like graffiti. But sometimes, there are some which I appreciate.

The ones that are artistic :

The ones that makes a point :

The ones that are creative :

The ones that beautify :

But not this one. This is a huge-ass writing on the floor next to our common citofono.

Translated, it says “Me and you forever. I love you my little one.

Personally, if I were that girl, I wouldn’t find it romantic. Instead, I’d find it stalkerish and creepy.

  1. It is super ugly
  2. It vandalises public property
  3. Not creative nor effort given at all
  4. Did I mention that it is ugly?

Whatever happened to romanticism like writing a poem or a love letter (girls love those and keep them forever!) or singing a song or bringing little gifts or flowers?

I’m sorry, but this little romeo wannabe is an idiota.

Important announcement

Hi everyone,

I got this in my email some weeks back and I realised that it was time to renew my hosting plans.

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Come November 25th, I’d have to pay slightly more than 200 USD (192 USD for hosting plus 14 USD for domain renewal)

The thing that was going through my mind was, “Woah! So expensive? I don’t remember having to fork out this much the past times.

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I’m a longtime user with bluehost since 2006. And while I think that their service has been 90% excellent so far (apart from the several downtimes) I’m sad to say that I think that I’d have to let go of the hosting … It’s just costing too much.

Even with adsense running at the side, it’s not enough to cover the hosting fees

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(HOW SAD! ME NOT FOFULAR!)

It doesn’t make sense to be paying this much for a personal blog, hence I have no intention of renewing. And thus rinaz.net, as well as my email rinaz@rinaz.net will stop functioning here on the 25th November.

And though I think it’s very kind and generous, there is no need to contribute or donate any money.

Thanks for accompanying me in my journeys and listening to this woman ramble. It’s been lots of fun πŸ™‚

I got robbed!

URGH!!! I’m so annoyed, I could beat someone up!

Ok, so it’s not really so dramatic. But it’s very annoying when trying to do a left safety check when on the road and you can’t take a glance to see oncoming traffic.

If you don’t know what was stolen from me, take a look at the picture below.

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See, the left mirror was unscrewed cleanly right off. It wasn’t a job done by a juvenile delinquent, but someone who had the intention of stealing it for himself. What a terrible surprise to see in the morning!

Urgh! Of all the scooters, he had to target mine! He couldn’t take the other two abandoned scooters which was right next to me -_-

At this point of time, I’m tempted to just attach my hand mirror as a compensation. It’s just about the same size anyway.

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Yeah, I know it’s quite low-class and getting a replacement isn’t that expensive, but it’s just the principle, you know?

Le sigh!

My family in Rome! Part 5 and final

Hi everyone! Gosh, I wanted to post this last Friday, but was so busy running around Rome. Did you know that there is an English library here? To be honest, I didn’t feel like I was in Rome at all when I stepped inside.

Anyway, here’s the continuation and the last installation for My family in Rome series πŸ™‚

Sunday

As my family didn’t seem to be content from roaming around the week before, we agreed on going back to the open flea market in Porta Portese. So early in the morning, we dumped Cart (who’s not a morning person) and went on our own.

Because the roads there were closed for the open market, I couldn’t drive there directly (not that I would like to anyway as parking would be a nightmare) so I parked close to the nearest tram station and we took the number 8 to Porta Portese and we started roaming around.

The first stall that we saw was one that sold African items. My mum seemed transfixed looking at the colourful fabric decoration and bags. She even got for herself this traditional outfit and then valiantly started to bargain with the shop owner – a rather big and strong man. She’s very brave!

Either she has a lucky face or she’s very good at it (maybe both) and she got a really good deal in the end! I never tried to bargain myself … it’s just not in me, I guess πŸ˜›

Later on, we went to a stall selling clothes at a cheap price. It was a mix of new and used items, and my mum got some tops for herself, at less than 5 euro each. You’ll get to see her modelling it towards the end of the day πŸ™‚

We must have taken such a long time, because from this point onwards, Nazry decided to split up to go to the other side, so that he could look at the more rare and unusual things while I sticked around to babysit my parents πŸ˜›

To be honest, it’s was infuriating then, seeing how my parent’s just got excited like little children in a candy shop. No, really. My dad kept wandering off, looking around at wallets, and belts, and bags and sandals (which he could get in a pasar malam in Singapore)

While my mum keeps buying scarves and tshirts. I could see it in their eyes, their inner monologue saying, “I want this! I want that!

But reflecting back, it’s sort of cute when I think about it now. It’s nice to see your loved ones still have a child-like quality (as opposed to being completely jaded)

(If you’re wondering why I added this picture of a giraffe stool. I like giraffe prints and would like to collect more if I could)

As the time got close to the afternoon, we decided prior to regroup. It wasn’t easy to find each other in all the crowd and I was relieved when we managed to see each other in the end. Thank goodness for technology! I have no idea how tourists managed to go like this 20 years ago.

Anyway, he got for himself several old and rare postcards. And we were in a heavy discussion if they were actual photographs or paintings to look like Rome during the 60s. I forgot to take a picture of them though.

As we were hungry, I was wondering what we could eat for lunch. Maybe pasta? Cart should have been up, so he could cook us lunch! But we happened to be driving along the way, we did a quick stop to buy some kebabs.

The servers must have been glad to see us because immediately they sprang energetically when the four of us stepped in. Hehe.

Some Italian lesson! Pollo means chicken. Agnello means lamb. Vitello means veal. Manzo means beef and Pesce means fish. Some important words to know when you’re going to Italy :p

(Actually I think the most important phrase is Dov’e’ il bagno? Where is the toilet?)

Oh! As a sidenote, all these while when we’ve been eating out, my parents has been buying a little bit more extra … or saving the leftovers for breakfast! For me, after living in Rome for a while, it takes a little getting used to, eating savory things for breakfast all over again!

When we reached home, all of us had a lovely and easy lunch together. Cart had his falafel kebab, my mum and dad had a kebab each, my brother had a kebab plate.

And of course for dessert, I stopped by Cecere prior. One of my favourite pastry shop. I cannot go without my cream puff and maritozzo! πŸ™‚

After lunch, we rested for a while, and then I had the tough decision of where to head to afterwards.

Do we go to Villa Adriana? Or perhaps somewhere out of Rome. Such a hard decision! But in the end, I decided to go to Ostia Antica. This is a place about 20 minutes drive from where we live and is somewhere that I’ve always wanted to go to.

Strangely, in all our years living here, we’ve never been there before (both Cart and I) so it should be interesting. Moreoever it was closer so we could spend more time there and less time commuting.

It took us about 15 minutes driving there and we reached a charming looking area. One of the thing that caught our eye was a castle. Thus we made a stop to explore.

To get inside, we had to enter a Piazza. And I think it’s so lovely here. So idyllic and tranquil, it feels like I’m transported back in time. It makes a wonderful location for wedding photoshoots I think.

Look at how fairy tale-ish the area looks like. This could even be a spot where you could do a role play for “The elves and the shoemaker

And just by chance, indeed there was a wedding going on! There is a church right at the end. And there were loads of people wearing fancy outfits going in the church. I was raring to enter the place to have a better look, but the rest of the family didn’t seem to have a busybody bone like me πŸ˜›

And here is the castle! While it looked rather modest, it is so charming and lovely. I would have loved to enter and see what it looked like inside!

Unfortunately, it was locked and opened for tour walks during wednesdays only. Oh well! Perhaps we’d be luckier the next time πŸ™‚

And here is a random tri-coloured Roman cat – happy to get a cuddle.

After walking in the piazza, we then headed to the Ostia Antica Archeological site. It costs about 8 euro per person to enter. Kind of expensive, but it was something amazing to be seen.

The first thing you’ll see is this crackly road. Have you ever seen this sort of road before? Maybe in postcards?

Now I finally see the real thing! By the way, this used to be a solid road, but throughout the years, it eroded to look like this infamous scale-like road.

As Ostia Antia was relatively close to the sea, thus it became a place where a lot of trading and marketing was involved which attracted people to call it home and became a community.

Here are some of the things that we saw. Isn’t it impressive how well preserved the buildings are Considering that these are about 2 thousand years old – Older than the colosseum!

This was a thermal bath

If I’m not wrong, this was the housing area

This was the arena where wrestling was done

This was where the capitol building was

This was the communal water fountain

This is the remains of a temple

And this is the auditorium

And here is a random gecko

It’s so beautiful in here. Seriously breathtaking. Everywhere you go, is like a high fashion photoshoot location. See, even my dad looks modelesque here, even without trying.

It was nice to see everyone looking so interested and excited going around the area. Just look at how excited my mum looks as she goes climbing around this auditorium. She even imagined that she was a queen, giving her speech on top of this podium. Hehe.

As you can see, there were so much to see and roam and explore. It’s nice that we could walk in and out and up and down the builds.

And see the still intact mosaics

As a sidenote, there were a few interesting plantlife to be seen, apart from acorns and figs, Cart managed to sniff out (literally) wild rucola! It’s a strong and distinct smell.

After about an hour and a half roaming around the place, it was close to the closing time. But we only managed to walk through half of the area! Gosh, we walked quite a bit and yet didn’t see everything!

But oh well! I’d love to come back here again. Maybe next time, I’d find more photographer friends and we could have a high fashion photoshoot here πŸ˜›

By the way, the tops that we are both wearing, costs less than 5 euro each. This pink top I’m wearing is a Mickey and Minnie Disney shirt, and I love it! I love bancarelle! Maybe I should write a blog post on the good ones in Rome πŸ™‚

Random cat pics we spotted in the area! Gee, what a sour faced puss.

And a confused kitty.

Anyway, to end the day, and finally had a quick stop at the supermarket for some groceries for dinner. And at the same time, I guess my family could get some last minute keepsakes.

Nazry actually went crazy on buying coffee. He got for himself TWO large coffee makers, the 12 cups size cafettiere and 16 packs of coffee. Enough for him to last a year. Maybe even two! But It’s actually cheaper to get them in Italy. I remember when we were in Singapore, it costs almost 10 dollars for a quality pack of coffee.

I saw this for sale and thought that it could be interesting to eat. I didn’t like it too much though. Chilli and chocolate tastes a bit odd to me. I prefer the orange and chocolate combination.

Monday

Oh gosh. It’s their final day here. How did time pass by so quickly? It seems like I just blink an eye and a week just gone by.

Anyway, Cart took the day off to send them to the airport. And today, we pretty much just relaxed around the house, my family got their luggage ready and then we had a simple lunch at home.

As a finale, the last place that they visit, I took them to see Laghetto Eur. It’s not really a touristy place, but personally, I enjoy visiting this area anyway.

The passeggiata del Giappone is a big park surrounding a lake. Here you could see a lot of parents taking their children for a stroll, couples picnicking, buff men canoeing … And every now and then, there will be a bazaar or an event here.

I myself go jogging here regularly and I see familiar faces almost every time. It’s a nice place to go to for people watching.

Anyway, we walked to one end of the lake to see the ducks. While it was normal for the random person to throw small pieces of bread to the birds, there happened to be a guy who brought two black bin bags full of bread.

Soon, one corner of the lake was filled with floating bread. It looked so dirty-ish (although the birds and fishes and turtles will probably eat them all in the end) I think we were all just amazed at seeing all those wastage.

We continued walking and going for a stroll …

I just find it very relaxing just to be walking here. It’s not crowded and you could think better here. Maybe it’s just me?

At length, we walked to the other side of the lake … And there’s a McDougals here! I was joking if they wanted to eat here. Surprisingly, they thought that it was a good idea and went ahead! Ehm. Me and my big mouth!

Anyway, there wasn’t that much difference between here and the one in Singapore. The menu might be slightly different (like the McItaly)but the regulars like the Fillet-o-fish is the same.

(Meat isn’t halal here, but the fries and seafood are fried in vegetable oil if you trust to eat them)

Anyway, it’s a little bit different here cos I feel it’s slightly more posh. Something about a gazebo and a view of the lake makes it seems more high class, somehow πŸ™‚

Oh, I just remembered, that my dad wanted a cappuccino (which is a breakfast drink). It was already late afternoon, so the man at the counter looked at me in surprise and I just shrugged my shoulders. The things I have to endure for my parents :p

Anyway, after our drinks, we then continued walking and of course … camwhored!

One.

Two.

Three!

Hahaha!

And then we walked to Giolitti which was at the other end of the lake. It’s a well known gelateria and there are a number of branches here in Rome. The servers all wear spiffy looking uniforms with vests and a bow tie.

There are a different range of gelato. And you could even have 3 flavours in one cone if you liked.

But I was more in the mood for frappe. Which is basically milkshake – part ice cream and part milk. I love frappes!

The only thing is, when tasting it, while it’s not bad, I think that the frappe that we had isn’t as nice as the one that we had in Millenium though. There are better gelateria in Rome.

Oh! As a sidenote, this is another top my mum got from a bancarella. Less than 4 euro, but she’s rocking the look! πŸ™‚

After we had our dose of ice cream, then we went back home where we changed to our Baju Kurong. And by chance, each of us had a green baju kurong (even though they are in different shades) Cart still kept his and we went to have a quick photoshoot while it was still daylight.

As the day was still within the 30 days of Hari Raya, I guess it’s a family hari raya photo!

Don’t we all look so spiffy? I love this picture. But what would make it more complete is if my sister and other brother was here. Hopefully the next time πŸ™‚

And then soon after that, it was time for us to head to the airport. And we played tetris with the luggage, trying to fit the bags at the back of Cart’s car.

While they were trying to fit the luggage, my mum took a chance to pose on my scooter. Haha!

AND! This is probably the last picture I have of my scooter with my left mirror intact. Someone STOLE my mirror! Unscrewed it right off! Urgh! Such a pain trying to do a safety check while on the road … I want to beat up the person who stole my mirror!

Ahem. Anyway, I really didn’t want my family to go. It really felt like the days just passed by so quickly. It’s like they didn’t even stayed here. It’s like, I blinked my eyes and they were gone. It’s so unfair! (Inserts an Aerosmith song)

By the way, we found out that both my parent’s didn’t maximize their luggage weight. They could have had more than 10kg to bring back to Singapore. Bring a bigger bag next time. Hehehe.

So while we were waiting for the plane, we stopped by at some duty free shops where I spotted this interesting looking speaker. This one, I definitely wont throw things at it!

We then stopped at a bar for a drink. And we chatted about their experiences here, their feelings and hopes. I was already feeling quite sad. Sigh! Oh! I just remembered, my mum was asking “Will you miss me?” Because I was a little heartbroken, I replied, “No!” even though I was. And she hugged me tightly and responded, “Well, I’ll miss you!

(Sad emo Marina)

Anyway, this is the last coffee that they had in Rome.

And then it was time for them to board the plane. So we took a final picture together …

And this is the last scene of what I saw … my mum waving goodbye to us … πŸ™

I do hope that they had a nice vacation and stay. And hopefully it will not be the last. I miss them already and hopefully will seem them soon, be it here or in Singapore.

And that’s the end of the series! Hope that you enjoyed reading so far as much as I enjoyed writing it out …

If you managed to read till the end, thanks for enduring close to 3k words today … here’s a kopi for you! You deserve it! Hehehe!

My two cents on Amy Cheong

The latest hot topic in Singapore is about a woman who made a racial comment online last weekend.

The woman, Amy Cheong, former assistant director to NTUC was upset about the noise coming from a Malay void deck wedding and she posted this on her facebook account :

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The first time I saw the comments, I was ambivalent about it and pretty much dismissed it. In my mind, I thought, “Gee, what a dumb thing to say“. I was more disappointed rather, as these were words of a socially uneducated person (regardless if she went to university)

But the reverberations were fast and her post became viral. In a matter of hours, there was a significant amount of outcry online over her words.

It was understandable, as people seem to always be fascinated with “the bad” (which is why there’s always a traffic congestion when there’s an accident even though there are 4 other free lanes, as everyone slows down to look for any trace of gore and whatnots)

As expected, I see my timeline filled with replies, and I can feel their genuine anger. But what bothered me more is how emotional and quick the online community are at judging her and crying out foul and for her virtual murder.

Rather than discussing the issue like civil people, we think with our pride and ego. Gosh, is this really how we want to be perceived? That we are a community of mobs?

It’s as if someone makes a passing comment while walking, and if another hears it and doesn’t like it, doesn’t give them the right to form a collective group to beat that someone up. That’s bullying, regardless if the person deserves it or not.

Just to be clear, I’m not condoning Amy Cheong’s actions (moreover, don’t you think that she’s already been duly punished already?) But I feel, we should be more gracious and be a little less emotional especially online, where media is usually more fantastic than what it really is. Like the extreme anti-religion protesters are only 0.007 of the entire community. Mass media made it seem like it was more.

It’s always easy to react, especially online when information is transferred so quickly. The beauty of being human and freedom is that everyone has the right to think what they want. But each person should be responsible for what they convey

Each of us have a choice in how we react. Be angry and finger point – leaving the problem unsolved and widening the gap OR we could educate and have a more understanding and open minded mentality with each other (not just tolerance)

To be honest, if someone were to say to me, “Malay weddings are low class and costs only 50 dollars“, I’d genuinely be surprised and and wished that we had that person as our wedding planner! And if someone says to me, “People who have void deck wedding are idiots as it will lead to a divorce“, well I’m just happy that my marriage with Cartcart is still going strong.

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(What does the cost of a wedding got to do with the happiness of a marriage anyway?)

Why take an allegation personally, when you know it’s not true? Rather than reacting negatively, we need to be the bigger person.

And as for me, I’ll just relax one corner and play my guitar.

My family in Rome! Part 4

Alright! Compy seems to be working fine at the moment *crosses fingers* So lets get this blogging started and continue from where we left off πŸ™‚

Thursday :

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We took it easy today (since our openbus tickets are already expired, there was no sense in rushing as we’ve seen all the important monuments in Rome)

Thus, we had a slow and relaxing morning. I made a quick lunch and then went out for a bit of a walk. And for today, I thought that I’d take them to Quartiere Portico. This place is famous as there is a large Jewish community here.

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Thus, after lunch, we drove and parked near the nearest tram stop where my parents saw a veg and fruit shop, so we stopped for a while and again, bought like 10 kg of fruits -_-” Luckily, the car wasn’t too far, so we put them at the back at the car, and then we took the number 8 all the way to the Jewish quarters.

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Initially, Cart was extremely worried, especially with my mother wearing a headscarf, now with how the reactions are with the anti-religion movie. But nothing happened, thank goodness. I’m glad to see that the people are here much more open minded.

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One of the first thing that caught our eye was a bakery shop. It was open!

This was what caught our eye. This beautiful looking cake.

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The friendly shopkeeper explained to us that this is a typical sweet that is eaten during Jewish celebrations like the Jewish new year.

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Initially my mum wanted to get five of them. But we were adviced not to get that many as we found out, that each cake was enough for 8 people to eat! We got two instead and each one is very heavy by the way. I don’t think we could carry 5!

By the way, a small piece is extremely filling as it has almonds and dried fruits. I couldn’t eat too much of this. It was extremely sweet and more than a slice will be a littleΒ too cloying for me.

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We then took a stroll past the shops, and towards the restaurants. There are plentiful of famous restaurants here. And if you’re here during March – May, it would be artichoke season, and the best time to eat Carciofi alla giudia – one of the food which is famous here.

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As a sidenote, there seems to be a discrepancy about Anthony Bourdain shooting a show here, in the Jewish quarters. There was a scene where the host was eating in a restaurant in the Jewish quarters when we watched it here in Italy, but it seems in the American screening, the scene was taken out completely.

It’s been said that Bourdain used the set of one restaurant, but the food served was made in another restaurant. So as to not confuse viewers, the scene was taken out completely.

Personally, I find this episode corny as heck. Nevertheless, it’s always a small thrill to be able to spot out the places that I recognize.

Anyway, at the end of the Jewish restaurants, we reached Porto D’Ottavia. I like to call this the fake colosseo as it has a round shape, much like the colosseo and you always spot this out when taking the tour bus. See the right hand side?

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My parents were very fascinated by the scenery. As well as the marble and the ruins that was still standing. They kept asking questions like, “What do the people do during those times?” “Is this like a coffee shop where people meet up?

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Hmm … I think so! This used to be a market in ancient times, if I’m not wrong. So this was where people meet up and buy groceries!

Anyhow, we turned back and crossed the main road to go to Campo Dei Fiori. It was then that the sky got darker and it started to drizzle …

But it didn’t dampen our spirits! By the way, Campo dei fiori is easily recognizable by this statue. I call it, “Thief, the dark project” (Not really. He was actually a poor friar that was burned to death πŸ™

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This is a nice place to go in the mornings as there is an open market here. So you could see and buy seasonal fruit and vegetables as well as seeing beautiful handmade items and flowers. Something that’s quite interesting to see in my opinion.

But we reached here after two, plus it was raining, so the only remnants of a market life was the garbage-men cleaning up the area. So it was a little depressing.

But it happened to be that as soon as we started to walk away, there were some football group and cheerleaders in the area and they did a quick display in the square. My mum quickly snapped a picture :

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Anyway my dad needed to go to the toilet, so we stopped by a bar which was nearby on the pretex of having coffee. But in the end, it turned out that we ended up using the loo one by one myself included!

When I came back, I felt something strange going on. The barista looked shy, while my mum was grinning widely. It was then my brother was telling me that Mum flirted with the barista and fired a lot of questions.

Well, here he is! By the way, my mum snapped this picture, not me πŸ˜›

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My mum has good taste, huh? A little too young for her maybe?Β And as soon as we left the bar, Nazry and I started teasing her.

Naz and me : “You’re such a flirt, aren’t you!

Mum : “Oh yes!

And then she realised what she said, and quickly corrected herself.

Mum : “No! That’s not right! I’m just being friendly!

But by this time, we were both sniggering.

Then we went to Lush nearby. This place is lovely and smells wonderful. And while they specialise in handmade soap, everything looks so good to eat.

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I warned my parents not to get anything here, as it tends to be on the pricey side. Just look! Don’t buy!

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But they didn’t listen to me. And they got quite a bit of soaps and creams and whatnots. Oh well, if it makes them happy. They got quite a lot of freebies in the end! πŸ™‚

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It was past 5 pm and we headed towards a place that specialised in Filetti di baccala. This is codfish, dipped in batter and deep fried. Sort of like fish and chips (but without the chips)

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It was probably too early to have dinner (I think we were the only customers there at the time) But what other chance do we have to visit this place again? Moreoever the filetti here is yummy! Plus this place brings memories to Cart. As he has memories of his teacher bringing him and his classmates here for a meal together at the end of the school term.

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By the way, one of the endearing habit that I found out that all of us had when the fish arrived was, all of us were hoping that there was a bottle of chili sauce. We tend to slather fried food with chili sauce. And it took me a long time to get used to it, but the fish tasted as good as it was (our itchy fingers poured some vinegar on top of it anyway)

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Of course, when we reached home we didn’t have dinner as we were still full. I don’t even remember what Cart ate. I’m such a bad wife.

Friday :

As it was Friday, my parents wanted to go to the mosque again.

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However, I’ve never driven out this far before (it’s more than 20km from home to get there) and I put my faith on the GPS.

Unfortunately, it was a cloudy day and rainy day, blocking the satellites. Thus my GPS wasn’t to locate where I was. And after a while, I couldn’t recognize any landmarks or roads. Everything looked unfamiliar It was so stressful.

With all the confusion, I took almost 2 hours to reach there instead of one.

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But when we reached there, we saw loads of police vans and soldiers as well as important looking men and cars. And there was a big crowd. What was going on? Was there a riot going on? Did an important person die?

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It was only later that we found out that the new prime minister of egypt was on a diplomatic tour here. Take a look at how popular he is. Everyone’s crowding to look at him!

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The only sad thing is, with all the security going on, the food bazaar wasn’t around(and I was so looking forward to eating some kebabs and we were all famished.

Anyway we stopped by castroni for a bit. This is a shop that sells international goods and also a great place to buy coffee and gourmet chocolates.

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And then we quickly drove home and quickly made some noodles. We were all so famished. After that, I quickly made some chicken noodle soup as this was to be brought to my in laws. And we waited for Cart to come back from home so we could all go together.

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Initially, it was supposed to be a small dinner together. But when we reached there, we saw the table nicely set up. And then my sister in law and her children arrived. It felt quite festive!Β I guess this is a sort of impromtu Hari Raya celebration?

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In the end, I think we shouldn’t have eaten the noodle and should have stayed hungry. Because my MIL made quite a lot of food! (I don’t understand, she was the one who said that she didn’t want to fuss and cook :P)

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But I am glad to see how well our families are interacting together. They seem to extremely friendly and get along with each other and that was lovely to see. I’d hate to be in a relationship where the parents and in laws don’t see eye to eye.

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Saturday :

Today’s rest day for my parents. Ok. My dad hasn’t been complaining but I see that he’s been having issues with his legs so I thought that it could be good for them to stay to rest for a bit.

But I still felt bad nevertheless when my dad saw me and Nazry ready to go out and asked, “Where are you going?” as if, we were abandoning them. So I told him that we were going back to San Pietro, the same place where we went to last week, so that Nazry could see it for longer.

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Anyway, initially Nazry wanted to go there on my scooter. But to be honest, I’m not very confident on bringing a pillion. Sam the scooter is small. For short distances is fine, but will be a pain when going to the city center (Moreoever my brother’s starting to be on the heavy side …)

So we drove to metro in the end and we had lunch at subway. I was still slightly peckish, so we had a bit of pizza at the bakery not too far away .

And then my evil tummy still wanted to be fed, so we stopped by a gelateria called, Millenium.

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I knew of this place when I had my eye checkup some years back. And I think that their ice cream is really good. A little on the pricey side, but still very very good.

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So good that, initially, Naz didn’t want an ice cream. But as soon as he tasted my creme caramel frappe, he rushed back in to get one of his own. Haha!

We then walked towards the Vatican museum. And in my heart, I was hoping that Naz didn’t want to visit. Because personally, I feel that it’s an expensive tourist trap, and just not worth visiting. Because the only big deal is the Creation of Adam in the Sistine chapel. But it’s not worth paying 15 euro being pushed around and screamed at …

When Naz saw the crowd and the price, he quickly changed his mind.

And then we walked to San Pietro. Oh boy, it was so crowded, that there were lines all the way towards the main road. It would take at least 30 minutes of queuing up for security! (Not including the check for clothing) So we changed our mind and decided to go to Piazza Navona to see if we could spot out the painting that Naz fancied.

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Unfortunately, after going around two rounds in Piazza Navona. He didn’t spot his red tango dancer. And we went back home quite disappointed.

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I felt so bad for Nazry. It wasn’t a fruitful day at all! So to cheer him up, I thought that we could all go to another museum. And it’s not too far away from home either.

The Museo nazionale delle arti e tradizioni popolari! Like how I’ve blogged before, I highly recommend this museum. There are so many interesting things to be seen here.

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Ranging from the outfits, to tools that Italians used from the early 19th century to the end of the 20th Century. It’s a real feast for the eyes and because it’s located outside of the city center, it’s less crowded and confusing here.

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As it was already nightfall when we were done at the museum (actually, we wanted to stay longer, but it was already close to closing time) So we decided to have dinner at il secchio. The same place where my family ate on their first day here.

Perhaps it wasn’t the best time to go there as it was a Saturday. I forgot that on Saturdays, all restaurants are crowded and thus we’d have to wait for a long time.

It was about 30 minutes of waiting till we finally had a table and eventually we had our bruschetta and pizza anyway.

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As we had our dinner, all of us marveled at how fast the time passed by, but I felt quite sad, as it will be another two more days with my family before they leave …

Watch out for the final installation in the next post πŸ™‚

Is this the end of rinaz.net?!

Dun dun dun!

Hi bloggariffic friends!

As you remember, I’m having issues with my main computer. It was already having issues for some time now, being super slow when I’m editing videos (which is why I hardly do video editing nowadays) and then this week, it took forever just trying to edit pictures!

The final straw was when it couldn’t boot up at all on right after my Monday’s post. Compy is probably punishing me for putting up a picture of my mom’s knickers :p

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But anyway I’m pretty sure it’s more of a software issue because this problem escalated when I installed certain programs. So for the longest time, I’ve had the intention of wiping the slate clean and reformatting it. However, the internal dvd drive is probably malfunctioning as I cannot use it for some months now.

Getting a propriety one will probably take a while, so for a quick fix, I got for myself this handsome Asus external dvd drive yesterday! Looks so shiny! I’m just thankful that I could boot compy using an external drive. Else compy will just be a white elephant in the room.

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I mean, sure I could install ubuntu in it via a thumbdrive (I love ubuntu by the way. In fact I gave it a try on the main compy to see how it goes and I ADORE how fast it is) but at this point of time it’s not really working out for me as I don’t know of any linux based image editing software which is similar to lightroom (the software I use for editing pictures) With it, I could edit like 100 pictures at once, which makes it a lot faster and time saving for blogging thus I really don’t want to go back to editing pictures one by one again …

And so, at this point of time, I’m typing this post on my netbook while my main computer is being re-formatted and re-installed with Windows 7. No fuss. No drama. Sometimes I amaze myself at how calm I am at erasing away 4 years of memories (well, I backup-ed my important files in my portable hdd anyway). I guess after years of working in IT, I’ve learnt to let go :p

Anyway, it will take a while to get it ready for blogging though, what with all the installation and updates and whatnots, so regular blogging (aka posts with loads of pretty pictures) will resume hopefully on Monday onwards πŸ™‚

It’s not the end of rinaz.net! But if it is … will you miss me?! :p

Sidenote : Probably silly, but my devices has pet names. The main computer is compy, my netbook is lappy and my camera, camie. I might name my new phone as mobie and if I have a tablet, I might call it tabby.

Second sidenote : Sometimes I feel like reformatting my blog too. It’s having a lot of issues now …

La Notte dei Musei, Free entry to Italian museums

Hi everyone!

This was supposed to be part of the “My family in Rome” series, but as there is a La Notte dei Musei event going on this Saturday, I just couldn’t wait to share with you.

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This Saturday, on the 6th October, all museums are free to visit from 8pm onwards. While you could go to the more famous museums in the city center, trust me, it will be super crowded, and will be quite a bother.

So if you are in Rome this weekend, there is one particular Museum in Rome that I highly recommend for everyone visiting Rome to head to. Personally, I like it better than the Sistine Chapel, which I feel is increasingly a big tourist trap year by year.

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Anyway, this museum that I recommend is called the Museo nazionale delle arti e tradizioni popolari.

Basically this museum is about life in Italy starting from the end of the 19th century to the beginning of the 20th century. And here you could see relics such as transportation, tools and outfits during those times.

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Located in Eur, (which, on it’s own is something interesting to see) you could take the metro to Eur Palasport and it’s about a 10 minutes walk to get to the museum.

I’ve been to this Museum before and enjoyed myself a lot. I love looking at the displays and imagine myself living as how these people used to. And it’s easy to get lost in imagination because a lot of the lifestyle of ancient Italians is quite similar worldwide.

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It left me such a lasting impression, which was why I brought my family here while they were visiting.

Anyway, on regular days, entrance is 4 euro per person, and for what you get to experience, I think it’s quite value added, and makes it extremely worth travelling out of the city center and go the more unfamiliar non touristy path.

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The only thing is that the displays are only in Italian (as far as I noticed) so it might be a bit of a challenge for non Italian speakers, but you could always bring a dictionary, or ask me to come along … seriously, I’d be happy to go again! πŸ™‚

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One last thing. Though you could see everything in about an hour, I recommend that you try to plan your schedule to spend about 2 hours here to see everything at leisure.

Museo nazionale delle arti e tradizioni popolari roma

  • Piazza Guglielmo Marconi, 8/10, 00144 Roma
  • Open Tuesdays – Sundays 9am – 8pm (Closed Mondays)

My family in Rome! Part 3

On the last day when my parents were here, my dad left his sarong behind on purpose. I think that it was a symbolism that he wanted to return back to Rome someday.

While my mum left her knickers with a zipper in front … THAT I think she completely forgotten about.

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Anyway, the first time I saw it, I burst out into laughter and asked, “What on earth is this? Why is there a zip on it?

Oh, that’s where you put money in. My friend recommended this when going overseas. For safekeeping valuable things,”Β she replied.

And then what? So when you have to make payments, you reach down to your crotch to get them?” I asked incredulously.

Of course not! You go to the toilet and take them out in advance of course!” My mum replied, matter of factly.

As you could see from the picture above, the zipper space is VERY roomy. I can even store my mob phone in there! Hmm!

This is a continuation of my family in Rome part 1 and part 2

Monday

It was the beginning of Β the working week, but Cart couldn’t join us, as he’s used up all his off days and had to return back to work. So it seems that I had to take my family out by my own the rest of the week!

I quickly prepared some food and snacks with me, and as soon as everyone was ready, we went downstairs and my mum and dad were puzzled, “Where’s the car?

I was keeping it a surprise the entire week without telling them that I could drive.Β And I replied, “Cart went to work with his car … you’re taking mine today!

But they didn’t look very surprised. What anΒ anticlimacticΒ surprise 😐

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Anyhow, it was such a pain trying to find parking in Rome. Moreover, I still needed a lot ofΒ practiceΒ in parking the car, so I decided to find parking near a metro station instead of driving all the way to the city center.

Even then it took us about 20 minutes or so, just to find a space for parking in EUR Magliana/EUR Palasport (which is full of office buildings by the way) It was almost fully occupied from all the commuters.

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But at length, we found one! And I wasted no time zooming in the parking space! Thank goodness! And then we walked to the metro station.

It was my parent’s first time taking public transportation I think. At this time, prices for an ATAC ticket has increased to 1.50 euro compared to some months ago when it was 1 euro each. It’s quite a sting to be honest, to be paying 6 euro (and another 6 to go back) instead of 4 and yet public transportation here still have their sciopero …

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We dropped down to Termini and pretty much we spent the next three days on the open bus. I love the Openbus! It’s a great and easy way to go around and see the city center and you can hop on and off anytime you want.

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I’ve taken it before with our previous hosts like Daphne, and Chinmay but I’ve always enjoyed each ride. It’s relaxing having other people drive you around and not think of traffic, horrible drivers and parking.

This summer, there was a fantastic deal where you buy a ticket and the next person rides for free! 50% off! Me gusta!

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One of the first stops that we hopped off to was the Fontana di Trevi. This fountain was probably made extremely famous due numerous movie classics like “La Dolce Vita“, “Roman Holiday” “TotΓ²truffa ’62

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There’s a saying that if you throw a coin in, you’ll be sure to return back to Rome (There’s also a saying that if you throw another coin in, you’ll meet your true love. The cynical side of me, completely disbelieve it)

Nevertheless, the monies are collected at the end of the day and donated to charities. And that’s a good thing πŸ™‚

And here is Naz throwing a coin :

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Next is my mum :

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And finally my grumpy dad :

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I do hope that they come back again, and soon! πŸ™‚

Sidenote – I had the most interesting conversation with Nancy and Natalie about a website which charged a service for people to have their coin thrown in the fountain without having to physically be there!

After spending time at the fontana, we were all feeling a little peckish, so we walked towards Piazza Capranica for a quick lunch (I made tramezzini I think. I don’t quite remember. And some peaches after that. It was quite filling!)

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As a sidenote, I remember watching a short film here with Kate Moss in it. Some Swarovski event, if I’m not wrong :

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We then continued walking and I found myself near Bartolucci! This is an amazing shop where everything sold here is handmade and completely made in Italy.

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Personally, I think that this is one of the shops that makes more sense to buy souvenirs here. But the only thing is that, the items are quite pricey here.

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Like these super cute wooden kittens in uniform. I LOVE THEM! Miau! LOOKATIT! Polizia, Carabinieri, Guardia di Finanzia, Guardia di Svizzera, Polizia di Traffico and Scout. SO FREAKING CUTE!

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But they are 4 euro each and will be 24 euro if I wanted to complete all 6 of them *thinks twice*

Next, we headed toΒ Piazza Della Rotonda where we had a quick coffee in bar called Tazza D’Oro. Cart always said that the coffee was excellent here, and there’s always a crowd regardless what time it was.

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And then we were ready to enter the Pantheon.

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This was one of the oldest church in Rome. It started off as a Pagan church before being taken over by the Catholics. Which is why the architecture looked non-traditional.

There were quite a number of changes inside (I didn’t take any pictures) but compared to the first time I was here, there were loads of pews. There were also significantly more tourists which is why there was a loud intercom reminding people to be quiet (as it was still a place for worship) every 10 minutesΒ or so …

We then headed to Piazza Navona! This was a place where historically, the place was dammed up to have boat races. Due to practicality, it would be impossible to do that now.

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And instead, this place is now a place to see artworks and artists at work.

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I also mentioned how the area was a spot where the movie, “Angels and Demons” were and how impractical it was to commit suicide here by drowing.

Nazry on the other hand was excitedly making his rounds, and he fell in love with a painting of a girl in a red dress, dancing the tango.

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We were on our way to go to Castel St Angelo, when we noticed the cutest looking bakery shop called Made Bakery. So we stopped for a while for a quick break and we had the loveliest, most delightful and delicious cakes.

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Not only were they BEAUTIFUL, but they were so very very good. The cakes were on the pricey side and while there are some reviews online saying that it was a tourist trap, I think that it’s worth going to at least once. The cakes are to die for!

And here is one of the two, very charming co-owner of the bakery, Francesca! As a sidenote, she’s a vegetarian for many years and was able to let me know what ingredients she uses.

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So I got a cake for Cart, so he doesn’t feel too left out :p

Next we went toΒ Ponte Vittorio Emmanuele where my Mum spotted something interesting. This isn’t Ponte Milvio, and yet there were people putting locks here.

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We then walked towards Castel Sant Angelo (it was closed though) and hanged around the bancarelle there.

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My dad got for himself a Baloteli tshirt and Nazry got for me this :

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Frog keychain! Love it! It looks quite like Nimo from my Nimo and Friends collection. I’ve been meaning to make a children’s book, but I’ve been procrastinating for too long … grrr. *kicks myself*

From here, we took the open bus and took a short walk to Piazza del Popolo.

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Piazza del Popolo, or people’s square is known to be the place where people hold demonstrations.

By the time we reached there, there were a lot of people selling roses. So couples had to tread carefully here or they’ll beΒ bothered. I’m amazed at how well my parents are taking this.

There was one who started talking to my mum and asked her where she came from (I guess on the account that she was wearing a headscarf and that wasn’t very common) and he said that he used to work in Singapore but it was very difficult to find a job here.

Finally we went to Santa Maria Del popolo, which was just nearby before we called it a day.

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Tuesday

Not sure if he was influenced by Amelie, but my brother thought that it could be nice to bring my lion plushie around. Cart got it for me while we were in Singapore and while I didn’t care for it then, I quite like that it has the word Singapore in it’s tshirt!

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As usual we took the car and parked it near a metro station and took the metro all the way to Piazza di Spagna!

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There’s always a crush of people when we transit at Termini.

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The Spanish Steps is an interesting place to be with. During the summer, there will be a fashion events where models do catwalks up and down the steps here.

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There were so many people and it was such a warm day! I was regretting not putting on my sunscreen. I keep forgetting!

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We then stopped by the McDonalds here. Yes yes! I know that this is not a touristy spot BUT!

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This is the first one that opened in Italy (not just in Rome) and as my mum worked in one, she was most excited and started to compare the things she see here with the one in Singapore.

Like this fancy hand dryer.

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And then my mum seemed fascinated by this rolling trash bin by the way.

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We couldn’t eat there, as the food isn’t halal but since I had to go to the ladies, we pretended to be customers and then get the heck out of there! Hehe!

After that, we went for a walk in the area. But it’s quite a dangerous thing to do as a lot of the things here are quite pricey. The roads are famous here for being full of branded shops like Prada, Ferragamo and such.

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Then we went Piazza Barberini and stopped by to fontana del tritone for a quick lunch (this time round, I think I made Piadina)

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And after we were rested, we then Cimitero dei cappucini.

This is an interesting place to go to, as there is a crypt with 5 chambers completely made of bones here. I’ve blogged about this before, but just wanted to update that after the renovations, the price has increased to 6 euro an entry.

While there were more things to see, like the museum segment which is full of relics in the beginning, I’m not sure if it’s worth to go there again.

See. My dad’s making a face :p

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From here, we walked to the Quirinale.

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The quirinale is basically the parliament house where government rules are made. We of course couldn’t enter, but there were always important looking people driving in and out of the buildings.

As the nearest openbus stop was in the area, we made a quick stop back toΒ Fontana di trevi. As usual, it was so crowded with people! Tourists and buskers alike.

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As a sidenote, I’ve been living in Rome so much that I could even recognize the regular buskers.

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Like this one in particular. He’s a bit odd though, as all he does is to reach out his hand to ask for money 😐 Hmm … I should be a busker too :p

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Anyway from here, we caught the openbus and headed to circo massimo.

We walked past the rose garden (which was closed) and spent time at the Santa Maria in Cosmedin. Here, there is a lovely lovely orange garden.

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Oranges are not in season at the moment, but imagine how this place will look like in late October when all the oranges turn orange and the smell of citrus in the air.

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We stopped by and decided to rest for a while and eat the remaining bit of food that we had. The grass looked so inviting that me and Nazry couldn’t help but to lie down on it …

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10 minutes later ….

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Urgh! How rude! It’s our fault (as well as the rest of the people there I guess) though as we weren’t supposed to be sitting there in the first place! Hahaha!

Eventually we walked up to Piazza dei calieri di malta to see this charming door. Peek in the keyhole and you’d see something very interesting!

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Nazry spotted out these monks and decided to run after them for a photo. They explained to Nazry that they were on a spiritual trip and were trying to survive without spending any money. I’m not sure if there’s a term for that. Is there the right term for that?

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Anyway, it was starting to be nightfall and we headed towards the nearest metro and had coffee at a bar which was along the way. This is marocchino by the way.

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And then we went in the metro to go home.

Oh! This is quite random, but I do love what this lady is wearing while we were in the metro! So green! cheerful!

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Cart was already home and decided to make caponata for dinner! This is made mainly of aubergine and bell pepper and celery and is so yummy! I think this is another vegan food?!

It’s quite a hassle to do, but it’s worth it! I think I’ll blog about making this too in a future blog post πŸ™‚

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While I made polpette. I was halfway making the meatballs when I found out that we ran out of eggs. It’s an important ingredient, so I was forced to to rush to the supermarket. Luckily I had a scooter to zoom me there … It was almost closing even!

But in the end, we had a dinner fit for a maharaja. Yum yum!

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Wednesday

So as usual, we took the car, then the metro and we went on a quick final round with the red openbus. As you could see, this is one of the reason why I preferred to park near the metro … so I avoid Β getting fined like this!

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It was our last day for being able to travel with the openbus, so I thought that it would beΒ opportuneΒ to see all the sights, one last round.

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We then stopped for lunch at a piazza (this time we devoured and finished all the meatballs with biscuits) and bothered the pigeons there while waiting for the green archeobus to arrive.

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Taking the archeobus was something that I’ve never done before. Unlike the red openbus that focuses on the city center, the green bus passes through theΒ archaeologyΒ sites like the catacombs and theΒ basilicas.

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If I planned better, I would have chosen one of the places to stop to. I’m pretty sure all these are interesting things to be seen.

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Nevertheless, I think we had a restful trip here as we did was practically sit and look at the sites from up the bus. My mum quipping that it felt that she was travelling through time, as there were absolutely no trace of the city center for the hour that we were in the bus.

After our trip on the archeobus, we stopped by La Bocca della Verita. There was a huge line of people queuing up to put their hands in the mouth.

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It’s said that during ancient times if you were telling a lie, your hand will be chopped off. But according to history, there is a man behind the hole who will have to judge if the person is telling the truth or not.

Anyway, my main intention in coming here is to eat pastries at Cristalli di Zucchero. This is a pastry shop which has beautiful pastries!

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This was what my dad had. A sort of mixed woodberriesΒ fruit tart.

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This was what my brother had, this one had rose essence in it

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This one was what I had. If I’m not wrong, this one has pistacchio in it.

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While my mum had mini brownies (but brownies don’t look very pretty, so I didn’t take a picture of that) :p

After our afternoon tea, we went for a a quick look at the Farmer’s market nearby where I learnt to make fresh egg pasta! It’s closed at the moment, and will only be open during weekend mornings.

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We then had a quick walk on Circo Massimo and I asked everyone to visualise how the place will look like with horses racing around and with podiums with people sitting in, watching.

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And then we took the metro back to reach the car … but instead of driving home, I thought that it was the perfect opportunity to end the day in Gianicolo.

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Gianicolo is one of the highest spot in Rome and from here, you could see an overview of all of the important monuments there are in Rome.

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While my family was busy looking at the view and taking pictures, to be honest, I was feeling a little sad already as it’s beginning to be precious little time that I had left with my family.

We left Gianicolo as it starts to be nightfall, and it was quite stressful trying to get home from here. Probably the wrong moment to be driving, as it was rush hour and there were so many cars on the road and you know how Roman drivers are … impatient! I was almost ready to lose my cool when one lady was close in hitting me and still had the cheek to curse at me!

I was just thankful that we all got back home safely.

Anyway, after cooking dinner all these while, my mum insisted that Cart and I don’t Β cook this time round. So we waited for Cart to get back from work and I suggested that we go out for dinner.

Cart changed and we took his car (at this time, I was completely NOT in the mood to drive and exhausted. It was such a nightmare!!!)

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We went to Piazza San Cosimato where we went to Planet Kebab, one of my favourite middle-eastern restaurants. There were quite a number of delicious items to choose from.

This is my couscous misto, and I do adore it. The meat is tender and rich and creamy and flavourful and just delicious.

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The rest of my family had briyani, falafel and kebab. I was amused at how my mum was commenting before starting to eat, “What small plates!” But in the end, found it challenging to finish the food … Don’t be deceived by the size of the plate, because the dish is quite deep! Hehehe!

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After our delicious dinner, we walked to Piazza Santa Maria in Trastevere. Here, there is probably one of the oldest christian church in Rome. There are also regular performers here. It’s a nice place to just hang out.

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And then finally we walked to Piazza Trilusa (you’ll always see a crowd of people here, sitting on by the steps) and at the side, you’ll see a monument ofΒ this famous Roman poetΒ where one of the poems that he wrote was :

“Mentre me leggo er solito giornale spaparacchiato all’ombra d’un pajaro, vedo un porco e je dico: β€” Addio, maiale! β€”Vedo un ciuccio e je dico: β€” Addio, somaro! β€”Forse ste bestie nun me capiranno, ma provo armeno la soddisfazione de potΓ© di’ le cose come stanno senza paura de finΓ¬ in prigione”.

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It was quite funny (though dark humour) to me. In my lousy Italian, it translates more or less (might not be accurate!)

While reading my newspaper as usual, I saw a shadow on the window and I saw a pig … I say,”Go away swine!” Then I see a donkey … I say, “Go away ass!” Maybe these beasts do not understand me, but at least I have the satisfaction of saying what I think without fearing of being in jail!

I quite like that.