Of smart spammers and of Joost

I like to use statcounter. I think it’s very useful and exciting to see who my visitors are. That was when I noticed this very curious visitor who stopped by my old blog. Who can that be?

Statcounter

When I traced the stats at my old blog, and saw that it was referred to from rocketboom. How strange.

Statcounter

Rocketboom is an awesome vidcast webpage that I’d occasionally go to. But I haven’t been there recently. And I don’t usually post comments in there. So why would I have a visitor from there?

I scanned through and saw this message:

SPAM!

I see my name. And I see it linked to my old blog. But that’s not me! How sneaky these spammers are! Not only do they intrude my email with promises of enlarging my non-existent manhood, now they resort to using *MY* name to spam. What the heck?

I wonder if there are other people who experienced this? Should I be worried?

In happier news, I’ve just discovered Joost! 😀 Thanks aplink and CJ for the invite!

Screenshot of Joost

Joost is a software where you can watch real time streaming of tv shows on demand. It’s like watching on demand cable on the internet. I’ve heard so much about it but didn’t give it a try till just yesterday when aplink and CJ were offering their invites on the ping.sg shoutbox.

The picture quality for Joost is quite good. It is still relatively sharp even when enlarged to full screen. What really impressed me the most was that it was almost instantaneous to stream.

Having watching clips on youtube and comparing the streaming speed to Joost, Joost is much much faster. The thing that was constantly on my mind was, “Woah! How did they do that?”

Screenshot of Joost

This is a screenshot of the show that I’m watching on at the moment, called Bridezilla. This reality show revolves around several women who are about to get married and how they turn absolutely crazy as their day of matrimony comes nearer. Yikes! I hope I don’t turn into one of those!

To get Joost, you’d need an invitation. I don’t have any since I’m a new member. But there are loads of other bloggers that are offering invites. Just ask 🙂

Why join blogging competitions?

I’ve stumbled on to this blog from mybloglog and have been following her blog for a while. In the blog, she talks about many different blogging tip and tricks.

Recently, the webmaster, Divya, has launched a new website – Blogging to fame. It looked promising – the site promises to give recognition to talented bloggers.

I was quite excited about this. Even though I may have not the same notoriety as some of the more well known blogs, I know that I’m a good blogger and I think that Marina’s Bloggariffic deserves more recognition.

Plus, the prizes awarded too, looks super sweet. The top prize is :

  • $25,000 in cash
  • Blogging to Fame Gold Trophy
  • Pass to attend the Seminar and award ceremony
  • Return Travel Tickets from Hometown to Chicago and Back
  • Hotel Reservations for Four Days, Three Nights
  • Blog Launching and Consultancy be an A-List Blogger

Now, which blogger doesnt want that? I jumped to register into the contest. 25K would be very useful for our wedding ceremony. And a chance to meet other renowed bloggers. Alvin mentioned that the Secondlife convention will be held at the same place too. If I win, that’ll be like a double whammy as I would love for to meet other secondlifers. This contest sounds awesome!

On the other hand, although blogging contests can be good at propelling for a blog, many of them end up biased and turn out to being a popularity contest.

Take for example, the bloggers choice awards. It started out innocently enough with bloggers nominating blogs whom they feel should have more recognition. But as time went by, blogs which had a higher readership and more supporters, had the upper hand.

Bloggers Choice Awards

Same goes for these websites –

Weblog Awards

The weblog awards. Which isn’t all that bad, as each nominations are scanned and benchmarked. I see many quality blogs in there. But eventually, again it is the most popular blog will have the most votes.

Singapore "Best of blogs"

There is also Sgfriends.net. Though the people manning the forums are one of the nicest moderators I’ve come across, the website could be a little overwhelming.

I think there’s something wrong when blogs are awarded due to their popularity, rather than their actual content as people with more aquaintances will have the added advantage. Maybe the organizers should rename these contests as popularity contests instead?

Rawr!!!

So I try to avoid blogging contests. Because this blog just don’t have that much of an impact to make a huge difference. Lets take blogexplosion for example

Blog Explosion

Eastcoastlife has a point. In Blogexplosion’s battle of the blog, many Asian blogs don’t usually win, even if their blog content is superior to their western counterparts.

In my last battle, my last post was about when Cartcart was in Singapore. I wrote about real life experiences and insights, posted pictures about places to visit while in Singapore. My opponent wrote brief posts about soccer. I know my posts had more substance and I thought I’d have a landslide win. Imagine my surprise to see such a close run. Maybe there were many soccer fans on that night? 😛

But in the end, even if I don’t win the coveted awards, that doesn’t mean that my value as a blogger is depreciated. I am self assured of my capabilities and I’d like to think that my blogging style is real, approachable and down to earth.

So, do you think this blog is worthy? Would you vote for Marina’s Bloggariffic? And what are your thoughts about blogging contests? Why not join the contest too. Maybe we could go to Chicago together. Or maybe your blog would be so popular that mine would be knocked off into oblivion, hehehe.

Anyway, good luck!

Sidenote : I’m curious to know how the organizers amassed that much money to fund for this contest. $100k is a lot of money. And I don’t see any sponsors link anywhere.

We are all connected

I feel quite poignant

Lilian is right when she said that the blogosphere is very close knitted. I remember what Preetam mentioned before during the E27 unconference. He said “Most people are more inclined to read blogs that belong to their friends or aquaintances”.

I cant speak for all, but I think the statement is true. Much of my feeds are of my friends, as I like to read the updates on my friend’s life and see what they are up to. Of course at the same time, there are interesting feeds that I’ve subscribed, to whom I have no aquaintance of.

Nevertheless, the blogosphere definitely is very close knitted. We know this is so because of this simple experiment :

1. Look at your blogroll and click one at random

2. Notice that the blogroll of the person you’ve clicked on has at least 2 or more people that you know.

3. Now click their blogroll at random. Chances will be that you’ll still see at least one person that you recognize.

Eventually everyone is connected to each other in the blogosphere. We’ll be even closer to the six degree of separation.

Evangelion - We are all connected

The world has become a smaller place. Nowadays, I dont even need the rss reader to see updates on my friends. With websites such as the increasingly popular twitter, I can see what they are doing and thinking real time. Isnt that useful?

However in retrospective, somehow I think it just gives us a false sense of security. Yes, it is definitely convenient. But a million sms updates just cant compare real interaction. Besides, would anyone really care about my mundane activities and rants?

This is a typical twitter message

3:00pm – Scratching my head
3:05pm – I just sneezed
3:10pm – Swinging around on my chair
3:12pm – Eating chocolate
3:15pm – Oh I just blinked my eyes

Uh … Too much information?

But one cannot deny its usefulness. This reminds me of a report by New York Daily News in 2005 of of how the last entry of his blog, has helped police to catch his murderer. His xanga blog is still up and I was struck by how easily it is to connect to him – looking at his picture, and reading his posts, it is not hard to imagine him as our friend. He was an ordinary and real person. Just like us.

Sek Man

Even though we may not be able to meet up with our internet friends in real life, I believe that it is possible to have real feelings and memories towards them.

I still have memories of my online friends.

Avatar of undercore

Undercore, a friendly and helpful young man whom was very helpful towards me and glonan, a sweet lady that is always very perceptive towards her friends. They are both gone too soon.

I think eventually, blogs and websites are a form of archive to remember us by. This blog too, is used for remembering past experiences and memories.

I think I am an average, ordinary person just like everybody else. We are all connected because we want to remember and to be remembered.

As a side note : There’s a blogout event coming up on the 24th May. Do come down if you can make it. This will be a great and fun way to meet and network with other bloggers 🙂

Is netcasting for schools a reality?

Watching Kevin’s vidcast for his COM125 class has really left me inspired. Through his video, we can observe his unique style of teaching which makes his lessons engaging and interesting.

Must watch!

Netcasting is where one records their own audio or video and post it online. It is a wonderful and effective way of sharing information. I think that more educators should use usethis medium.

It is effective because people contain information best through :

1. Repetition
2. Visualisation and senses

This is what makes techniques such as Tony Buzan’s Memory Pegs effective as it makes full use of one’s senses.

Must watch!

But while having dinner with my good friend Juli, who is a primary school teacher herself, I asked her opinion about it. She tells me that netcasting may not be readily received by teachers because of factors such as self consciousness and fear of technology.

Huh?

Here we have a simple technology that will help dispense information more easily. But people are so quick to reject it. Why should issues such as self consciousness be of a hindrance? In fact, one doesnt even have to video their own faces, but instead film how they solve a mathemetical equation on a piece of paper for example. Alternatively, they could film their students acting as parts of the bodys intestinal tract. This is a positive interaction as both teacher and student are both actively participating.

As a Multimedia Educator it is my role to help them along should they have problems or fear of technology. But I cant help them if they wont let me.

CDIS logo

I remember back in primary school, I would look foward to watching the CDIS programme. These were educational videos that were pertaining to what I learnt in school as well as some syllabus that I havent learnt yet.

And while in secondary school, I did well in humanity subjects as our teacher gave us a plentiful of access to video tapes that makes our visualisation, stronger. I am always amazed that I can still remember word for word, songs I learnt in choir but forget random information minutes afterwards.

I guess this is constituted to the fact that I am a visual person – receptive of things using my senses. And I am pretty sure that there are many people who learn this way too.

There is a wealth of information out there – audio visuals in the library, mass media, information readily available from the internet itself. Which is why, all the more reason that we should have netcasts for educational purposes and cultivate a culture of sharing in a more personal way.

Must watch!

Moreover with about 80% of students carrying handphones and/or mp3 players, we should take advantage of this and give netcasting a try.

Next week, I’ll be sharing the teachers in Shuqun Secondary about the potential about netcasting for lessons. I hope it goes well.

Update : Hooray! Mr Gopal, the head of department of maths seems keen on netcasting. I believe in the law of reverbberation. Start out small and then grow bigger! 🙂

Update : My presentation during staff sharing is up for viewing here

Marina’s Bloggariffic got hacked

Yesterday afternoon, I noticed an older post was got back to the front page. And I wondered to myself, What could be missing?

Luckily for me, I could recreate that particular post, thanks to google cache. I couldnt save the older archives though. I am not able to save the comments either.

In a way, I did anticipate that something like this would happen and did backups. But interestingly enough, when I uploaded my wordpress backup, it messed up my blog with an additional 200+ categories and another 200+ duplicate posts. Was it because my posts were imported from blogger from December 2006 and earlier ?

Last night I spent several hours having to delete all the extra categories and posts. I was really agitaged. And then I thought to myself, why should I stress myself over this? So I’ll just let it go for now.

Bye bye missing posts! May you rest in peace in technoheaven above…

Meeting up with a group of Secondlife-ers for the first time

On Thursday night, I was at the Secondlife meet hosted by Engkiat and Nicholas from the Idea Factory. I met fellow Secondlifers like Preetam, Vanessa and Alvin. I also met Aileen and for the first time ever, finally got to meet up with Jeremy, or Limkopi, as he is known inworld.

Limkopi was a memorable avatar for me because I always assumed, judging from the avatar that she would be a woman.

A picture of Limkopi Davis

Turns out that she was actually a he!

Real life Limkopi Davis

Jeremy claims that when he registered, he accidentally hit on the choice of woman avatar and could not click back to remediate it. But all secondlifers know that you can change your form and gender in Secondlife anytime you wanted to. We just think that his avatar remained a woman because of the free swags 🙂

By the way, that lady in the white shirt is Amira, a writer for the Sunday Times who interviewed me for this weeks column!

Rinaz claim to fame

I think I’m going to laminate this.

I also got to meet Falchion Smith who is the actual first Singaporean Secondlife resident. He joined SL in June 2003. Earlier than me! We playfully argued for abit :

Me : What? I’m not the oldest Singaporean resident? You are older than me? 

Falchion : I am the oldest resident and yet you get all the fame. People invite you to events and talks and all I get to do is to tell grandfather stories. Its not fair!

Preetam : This is the alpha and the beta war!

Eng Kiat posing next to the first SL resident in Singapore

He showed us a cool poster and his tee shirt which he got in 2003 as appreciation by Linden Labs for being an active alpha user.

Cory, Aileen and Preetam

Cory talked about the need to have developers and that hopefully by the end of the year, Singapore will start to be the asian base for Linden Labs.

Candid shot with the CTO

I really enjoyed myself. We had alot of fun, with us being silly, spoofing secondlife.

Picture stolen from Kevin's Blog

And on that night was when I met Kevin for the first time. I was pleasantly surprised to find out that he was extremely nice, very friendly and a very down to earth person. His online persona seem to give me the impression that he was a serious person. But it was really comfortable to talk to him.

Jeremy, Kevin and Ben

I stumbled upon his blog and we met a few times in world. He approached and invited me to speak in a panel representing the users of Secondlife for the Nexus Conference on Saturday.

Admittedly the idea of speaking in front of people was a little scary to me. It isn’t the same like webcamming where I can edit the video if I didn’t like it. But at the same time, I was excited at the prospect of speaking out my mind. In these type of conferences, speakers always talked about technologies and usually neglect human relationships.

Saturday morning

My rinaz badge!

Just for the fun of it, I decided to put on a badge that I made earlier on and dressed up as how my avatar would wear. Red shirt, blue jeans, and a grey cap. I had a relaxing ride on my scooter and headed to the picturesque Marina Boulevard facing the sea.

Picture stolen from Kevin

I met up with the Ping.sg gang – Uzyn, dk99, ridz84, Jugend, Aen, and a few others whom I didn’t have the fortune of catching their names.

What a very fun bunch of people. They were friendly and full of jokes. Even though this was the first time that I was meeting them in real life, I didn’t feel left out. Dk was always joking about, pointing out some funny observations from the event.

The opening for Nexus 2007

The event stared off with a very interesting talk by Nat Torkington who talks about the future of web 2.0. and then by the guys from Lenovo, Microsoft, Tata and Nec – Unfortunately, I wasn’t really paying attention. It was much too technical for me.

We then headed to another room where there was a discussion on the topic of ‘Crowdsourcing the media’ which I found very interesting. The panellists included, Kathy Teo of Cnet Asia, Jennifer Lewis from Stomp.com.sg and James Seng of tomorrow.sg and moderated by Kevin – In essence they talked about Journalism from the public – media which is created by ordinary people. Was there a need for censorship, was it really viable?

Crowdsourcing

The room was filled to the brim with people. It was definitely a very engaging session.

In the middle of the session, a lady from the floor, Clappingtree, asked the panelists on why there should be a censorship. She reasonsed that everyone, as long as they are within social values, should have a voice and a chance to be heard. She mentioned that ping.sg, a blog aggregator was a site where every blog had an equal chance of being read.

Uzyn got hounded by the fans!

After the session, Uzyn, creator of ping.sg got hounded by fans.

Gorgeous view of the city

After lunch, we got ready to set for the next segment where I was to do a sharing – “Living, working and creating a second life”. There were people in the room already. I asked Kevin, the type of questions that he will be asking, and he reassured me not to worry and that it will be a casual session.

Oh wow I look hot! (for the first time) Picture stolen from Vanessa

I saw that Alvin has just arrived. I confided in him, “Gosh, I feel so nervous. I don’t even know what to talk about!” Preetam came up to me and teased me, saying that he will ask a very difficult question to me on purpose.

Alvin looking at Vanessa who is looking at me

Later on Aileen and Kevin arrived and we started the discussion.

I opened with my sharing of Secondlife in a user point of view – Relationships in the metaverse. I’ve always felt that there isnt enough focus on human interaction as opposed to the focus on the technological (and commerce) side of it.

I can see my hand shaking. Picture stolen from Kevin

Alvin gave his thoughts about the Lion City sim to represent Singapore as well as to be an area where Singaporeans online could get together. While Aileen shared her thoughts on the business side of Secondlife.

I think they were both very good speakers. Aileen was very engaging and charismatic and Alvin kept his cool even though there was someone from the floor who asked a particularly difficult question in regards to our views about Secondlife being a political tool.

Alvin is cool!. Picture stolen from Kevin

In the middle of my presentation, just as I was about to talk about relationships transcending to the real world, the CTO for Secondlife, Cory and Jean came into the room. I felt quite nerve wrecked as I told my personal story about my relationship with Cartcart, whom I met from Secondlife. I really could feel all those eyes on me.

Picture stolen from Uzyn

But I had to push on and did the best I could. Looking back, I think I didn’t do too bad. Uzyn said that the room was silent when I was talking. But I think he was just being nice 😛

All in all, I think that the Nexus conference was quite interesting. And it was most definitely memorable for me 🙂

Updated: In case you’ve missed the article on the sunday times paper, I’ve scanned it and linked it here 🙂 Some inaccuracies here and there, but its all good 😛

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I was a speaker for a Secondlife discussion

ME ME! I'm in the secondlife panel!
From Left to right : Me, Alvin, Aileen, Kevin, Cory and Jean

Oh wow. Guess where I was!

I’m part of the panel for the Secondlife discussion at Nexus. It was quite nerve wrecking talking in front of the people there presenting about ‘Relationships on the metaverse’. But I guess I survived.

Thanks Kevin for inviting me to the panel, thanks Uzyn for selflessly lending me your laptop, and of course, Vanessa, Preetam and everyone else who supported the event.

I’ll update more later. By the way, do check out today’s Sunday times! I’m on page 54! 😀

Online Relationships in the metaverse

I am supposed to be doing a sharing session this upcoming Thursday at the Idea Factory for the Secondlife Community meet.

To be honest, after hearing the discussion at the E27 unconference, and seeing participants with their scepticism and disbelief, I’m not very confident about talking this Thursday, in front of all the technophiles I saw on the attendance list. Especially with Cory Ondrejka, the Chief Technology Officer of Secondlife being there.

Wow! Cory is a good looking dude!

(Even if I *am* looking forward to seeing Kevin and his helmet cam)

Kevin and his helmet cam

But I think that during these events, many people focus on the economics and technology segment. I believe that behind every mode of communication, there is a human element. So to prevent myself from mumbling incoherently during the event, I think I should give the topic just a little bit of thought.

Experiencing relationships in the metaverse. Or more specifically, Secondlife Relationships.

Mass Praying in Secondlife

I believe that the feelings that experienced online, could affect a person in real life. These feelings does not necessarily have to be romantic feelings, it also includes the feelings that you get when you get to know the people online, whether it be from blogs, instant messages, virtual worlds or other alternative sites.

Some time back while I was in cybertown, a well loved resident passed away due to her illness. I remember the genuine feelings of grief. There was a eulogy and everyone remembered the good memories and happy moments that they had of her. The feelings of loss, the feelings of sadness, these are all real even if we do not meet these people in real life.

So why should Secondlife relationships be any different from real life relationships?

In Secondlife, I’ve seen how easily and quickly on how two individuals from a relationship with each other. I think that this is largely because people have the freedom to express themselves more. They fashion their avatars as how they wanted it to look and they control how they want themselves to portray. Moreover with the awareness that the metaverse is a platform as opposed to real life, people are less inhibited.

Cart and Rinaz resting on a leaf

But as quickly as these relationships are formed, many of them are quick to dissolve too. A casual survey done in Secondlife shows that the average duration of a SL relationship lasts about a month.

Perhaps these relationships in the metaverse are seen as disposable. With over 4 million registered users in secondlife, there are always many other avatars that one can go to. Moreover, these residents can control their world as real as they want it to be, or to keep their relationships strictly online.

A wedding in Secondlife

A wedding in Secondlife

There has been stories of partners turning out not to be as what they describe to be – some are married, some even not being open about their actual gender. It’s very difficult sometimes to differentiate the truth in the metaverse because of the lines of transparency here.

The dilemma begins when a partner believes the representation of an avatar to be exactly the same as it is in real life. If they are happy in-world, would it be considered cheating when they find the truth about their partners?

I think the most important element in online relationships is maturity. Each individual needs to trust each other and to be truthful about their situation and always remember that behind every avatar, is a real person.

Torley and Jade

Torley and Jade

At the same time, there are also many couples who traversed from online romance to real life romance. It isn’t easy, and it may not be for everyone. But I believe that with trust, patience, faith and strong commitment to each other, the relationship will eventually work out in the end.

Thanks to Secondlife, there has been real life partnership and matrimonies. And that’s a good thing. It shows that no matter how advanced technology is, there will always be a human element prevailing.

Marina met cartcart from Secondlife

Falling in love is natural. And emotions are what makes us, human. The metaverse is thus another avenue where we can express, emote and relate.

p.s If you are free on Tuesday afternoon, do drop by NTU, ADM Atrium. Cory will be giving a talk about Secondlife at 4pm. I cant be there though since I’d still be at work. 😐