A very cool no package shop in Rome

Last weekend, I was at La Citta Dell’Utopia for a very interesting guided tour about excessive packaging (By the way, La Citta is sort of like a community centre, and I knew about this place because of their annual soup festival and I also used to do yoga here)

Anyway, as it was a Saturday Cart didn’t want to get up as he wanted to savour his non working day (by sleeping), but I really wanted to go, so I went alone. Which was too bad for him, because it was and I had a very nice day.

We went to 3 different places – a non packaged shop, a regular supermarket, back to La Citta to make shampoo and conditioner/Masque using things you could find in the kitchen and finally to a freecycle shop which is like a 2nd hand shop but is non profit (It is an AMAZING shop by the way. SO many things there. Thrifters will LOVE it)

(I might blog about the freecycle shop in the future, just that I didn’t take any pictures as I left early … ehm … X Factor Italia was on and I didn’t want to miss it)

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Anyway, I wanted to share with you one of the shops that we went to, which I liked immensely. This shop is called “Negozio Leggero“.

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This is one of the 4 owners of the Rome branch by the way, explaining to us, how the shop works – they obtain their stock in bulk, without individual packaging. And customers bring their own containers, jars, cans and bags. This way, you don’t have unnecessary packaging to throw away.

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Like if you bought a pack of tea, you throw away the plastic wrapping, and then throw away the individual sachets cover, and then throw away the box when you are done with it. And that’s just for one item. Just imagine how much trash you’d have to take out at the end of the week for a regular family.

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Anyway, I really like the shop you reduce wastage here. But mostly because of the lack of packaging, the items are cheaper (even if most of them are organic which is known to be costly) The housewife side of me is always looking for good deals.

There are a lot of interesting things to be found here. Ranging from food :

You could bring your own bottles and choose your own wine.

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And you could pick your own flour, rice or tea or biscuits … (This really reminds me of my childhood days when I could go to a mom and pop shop and ask for 50 cents of grated coconut or 1 dollars worth of biscuits)

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Apart from food items, there are also other items, such as toiletries :

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(I smelled the white tea shower by the way and it smells so heavenly!)

Something that caught my eye was these toothbrushes with exchangeable heads. I like that you could just buy one handle and then change the heads when it’s exhausted. Makes more sense no? And probably more cost effective.

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And there were some cosmetics that I might be interested to try out once I’ve used up all of my current mekap (Which will take a bit of time)

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I also saw this :

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If you don’t know what it is, err … never mind. But for those who do, I’ve been interested in this for a long while now. It’s just that it looks very daunting to put on, and I worry about accidentally dirtying myself. But one day … when I’m braver …

Moving on! There are also detergents for the house – for the floor, the windows, clothes, softener … While I was looking at this, happened to be a lady who brought her own jug to buy a detergent (As a sidenote, there are some supermarkets in Italy which does the same thing)

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And this was interesting too! I was staring at it for a few seconds, wondering why a date would be under the toiletries segment when one of the girl in our group explained excitedly how fantastic these are at cleaning her laundry.

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They are actually “Soap Nuts” which has a natural chemical which is good for washing and cleaning purposes. Because it is completely plant based, it’s organic, hypoallergenic and biodegradable. I was reading online how it can be used for other purposes too, not only for laundry.

My eyes got caught by these. And in the end, I got for myself some burger mix, some chocolate and some bar of soap.

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100g yields 2 fat patties by the way, just add 100ml of water. For about 1.20 euro, I think that’s quite a good deal. I still like Kio Ene veggie burger by the way, but this could be an alternative.

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All in all, I had a very nice time here, and looking forward to going there again the next time we need to do grocery shopping πŸ™‚

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Negozio Leggero – La Spesa Della Spina

Sidenote : Just out of curiosity, is there a shop like this in the country where you are at? If so, please let me know in the comment box below πŸ™‚

Quite the drama in my neighbourhood

And so, on the second day that Cart was away, I thought that I’d spend some time with my friend. The original plan was to spend some time at some bancarelle perhaps in the center. But we found out later that there was a violent rioting going on. We didn’t want to risk being in the crossfire, so we pretty much just hanged out in her neighbourhood.

Anyway, when I reached home close to 7pm, and as I parked my car, I stepped out and I noticed that there was a bit of liquid running across the road.

Odd” I thought to myself, “It didn’t rain the entire day. There must be a broken water pipe somewhere” And I promptly walked to the apartment.

About an hour later, I got a call from my in-laws who happened to be in the area (they had a friend living in the apartment across us, to whom they visit regularly) and my MIL urgently told me to go down.

And that’s when I saw this which shocked me.

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It wasn’t a lot of liquid. But considering that it didn’t rain the entire day, and that the level of liquid was getting higher on the tyres of my car worried me. MIL adviced me to park the car up higher grounds and which I did, hurriedly. There were a number of people already who had the same idea as I had.

When I found an empty spot, it was a bit of walk back home, more than usual. Nevertheless, I crossed my fingers.

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At about 10.30pm, the level increased to this :

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And then at about 2.30am, the entire road was covered.

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Funnily enough, I was thinking, “This is rather cool!” And yet, was feeling worried at the same time. Don’t go any higher please!

And then in the morning at about 7am, this was what I saw. You could hardly see the zebra at all! And our walking path looks like the start of a swimming pool.

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I’m glad that I moved my car (Cart’s car was parked in a relatively safe spot behind) And I was really hoping that it doesn’t go any higher. I mean, reading about the news of the flooding in Venezia was alarming enough, and also of Ponte Milvio as well as Fatebenefratelli which are both in Rome but I never expected that my neighbourhood would be hit too.

I took a walk outside to check out the situation. There are some areas which I couldn’t even traverse in my rain-boots. It was that high!

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And there were a few roads which were closed due to the … ahem … ponding. You could just imagine the traffic situation with cars conglomerating together, honking impatiently, wondering where to turn to exit to.

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Thankfully, in the afternoon, the water started to recede and by after lunch time, all the flooding went away. Leaving only traces of muddy sediments.

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What an eventful day! Funny thing is when I picked Cart up at the airport last evening, he quipped, “Oh no! I missed it!

The funny bit is that Cart has to be out of Rome again next week. And I’m trying not to get paranoid 😐

Suddenly I feel like a bachelorette

So … Cart had to be out of town for work for three days, and I dropped him at the airport early yesterday morning. And suddenly I feel like a bachelorette again. Hahaha!

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Don’t get me wrong, while I do miss him, I’m surprised at how err … relaxing it feels.

Starting off with driving back home. After all the years of going to school early morning, made me appreciate travelling at this time. This was the time to reflect and you think to yourself that a new day is starting and new adventures await you. And I felt so tranquil going down the highway with hardly any other drivers and greeted by the glorious golden sun rising past the purples and blues.

And when I reached home, I finally managed to rearrange most of Cart’s stuff like laundry, comics and whatnots that has been lying around and polluting my eyes. But whenever I try to move it, he’d complain and say, “No! Let me deal with it!” But gets distracted and forgets about it for weeks straight. Well, he’s not here to stop me now :p

After that, it motivated me to do a lot of other things. When I was done, looking at the clock, I was surprised at how much chores that I managed to accomplish, before Cart normally leaves for work. I normally don’t like to do housework when there is anyone around because I tend to find them to get in the way.

Anyway! Following that, I went on my regular Tuesdays routine like going jogging (by the way, I intend to participate in a half marathon come Feb next year. Anyone wants to join me? Do you think I’d be ready by then?) and then cooking a carnivour’s lunch (Cart’s vegetarian) and then tutoring in the evening.

But I think it’s more in the evening that I feel his absence most felt, as he’d be home at this time and we’d have dinner together and then have a cuddle in front of the TV. I’d faint on the sofa by the time the clock strikes 10 and the next thing I’d remember would be Cart waking me up to drag me to bed at 3 am. In that state of confusion, sometimes I don’t even brush my teeth and wash my face. Such a bad habit I started since we got married!

And so last night, it was such a proud moment for me (not such a spectacular accomplishment, BUT STILL!) to be able to wash, tone and moisturise then brush my teeth and put on my pyjamas and be in bed around 11 pm.

But the house was eerily quiet. Growing up in a family of 6, I’ve never had the experience of spending the night completely alone. And I get a little paranoid after watching horror shows like The Ring some years back. Moreover, I sometimes suffer from sleep paralysis which can be unnerving. So I just switched on some online radio, tuned in to Food Paradise on the netbook (to simulate the telly, which tends to lull me to sleep) and hoped for the best.

Well, I managed to get some sleep. And now I’m up blogging and in a while, I’m off for today’s adventures … pretending I’m a bachelorette :p

Update : Turns out that my plan of exploring had to be postponed as there were violent rioting going on … PLUS the flooding from Venice is starting to affect Rome too. YIKES!

Ohai! Like my hair? :-)

This post is going to be a little narcissistic, but it’s my blog and I can do what I want with it (moreover, I’m not sure what to blog for today, so this post is a sort of filler I guess)

Anyway, I’m quite a fan of X Factor Italia, ever since I first watched it. And last week, one of the contestants was singing an Amy Winehouse song. I didn’t really fancy how he sang it, but nevertheless I’ve always liked Amy’s voice and songs (and I think it’s such a waste of what happened to her) so from there, it was a catalyst for me feeling so inspired that I had the intense desire to dress up like her.

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So there I was early Sunday morning busily spraying my hair with hair spray, trying to pouf it as big as I could (wasn’t easy as my hair wasn’t that long) and when I was done, giggled like crazy and jumped to a surprised Cartcart to say, “Tadah!

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I have to say, I’m thankful to have such an open minded husband. As luckily for me, Cart didn’t laugh or thought I was crazy (but it was possible :p) Instead, his reaction was, “Cool!”

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Anyway, if you’re interested in getting this look, the hair I used this tutorial (the sock bun is a great idea!) and the eyeliner from this tutorial. I didn’t want to fuss with tying a scarf so I used an usagi hairband. Easy peasy lemon squeezy!

I quite like this look, I think I could even go out in public like this. Heheheh πŸ˜€

My Winter elixirs

As we move towards the middle of Autumn, the colder temperature tends to make my skin dryer than usual. Here are a couple of potions that I keep in the bathroom cabinet to ease me through the colder weather

1. Provenzali Olio di Mandorle

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Also known as sweet almond oil, this was something that I got on a whim. It was on an offer for about 5 euro, but turned out to be a holy grail for me. It does so much good for me, much more than regular body creams.

As I have sensitive skin, I’m amazed at how fast it helps to heal the scratch marks on my skin and when rubbed into my nails, it tends to make them grow much faster. The good thing is that it doesn’t make me feel sticky, and true to it’s claim, even after 24 hours, my skin doesn’t get that white mark when you do a scratch test.

Each bottle takes about 3-4 months to use (and I use it very liberally) and I’m just about to start using my second bottle now (the magnolia scented one). They both smell so gorgeous!

2. Ambrosia Multi Tasking Serum by Lucy Minerals

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This is not the best pictorial as you can see, as the words have faded off and there’s just a teeny bit left, which is just enough for one last use. You could search for a better picture online.

Anyway, this was very helpful to me during the winter. But at 28 USD (minus shipping) it wasn’t cheap. So to make it last longer and also for an additional moisturization benefits, I liked mixing this with my body lotion. Or I put it neat on my nails and at the tips of my hair for additional conditioning.

3. Leocrema Mani e Unghie con Cheratina e Vitamina E

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At first I thought of this as a pirate for the memorable Nivea brand.

Nevertheless, during the coldest winter, my nails tend to crack and chip a lot. So in dire straits, I got this tube for myself. It was practically the only drug store hand cream that contains keratin and the fact that it was relatively cheap, costing less than 3 euro each was what sealed the deal.

I have to say that it helps a great deal! Using this on a regular basis, I don’t get that horrible tip chip and my hands don’t look like it had freezer burns.

4. Olioseta Cristalli Liquidi

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This hair oil was part of something that Jess gave me in her loot. I’ve been using this for some months now, and I like it very much.

I pump about 4 times into my palm and spread it all over my hair. It has a fresh, luxurious scent that I love and seems to calm my hair down, making it a lot more softer and more manageable.

Anyway, these are a few of the things that I use during the colder weather. Have you heard of these items before? And are there any holy grails that you like use during these months? Let me know πŸ™‚

Suddenly we went back in time

Yesterday, we stopped having daylight savings time and we went back an hour. This always confuses my inner clock.

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Hipster Marina in a scarf complete with the quintessential smartphone

So when I woke up yesterday, thinking that it was 7 am, alarmed at how it was rather bright outside, (I try to wake up before sunrise) momentarily confused when I saw that it was only 6 am on my phone.

And then when getting out of the house, everything feels strange. It’s like, my brain is telling me that it’s this o’clock. But my heart is saying this isn’t right. Going out for lunch, for example. I normally get hungry by noon, thus I kept thinking to myself, “Why are we eating so much later than usual?

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Pizza with pomodoro secco is pure happiness

And while Autumn is absolutely beautiful with the leaves starting to turn yellow and red and brown, the bad thing about it is how the days start to get so short. I detest how DUSK starts to be around 5 pm now! I don’t know if I willΒ ever get used to this.

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I’m not sure even why we have DST. It seems so much more of an inconvenience twice a year.

Sidenote : I find it interesting now that I have my Nexus, I hardly carry my pnp camera with me anymore.

Creepy or romantic?

I don’t normally like graffiti. But sometimes, there are some which I appreciate.

The ones that are artistic :

The ones that makes a point :

The ones that are creative :

The ones that beautify :

But not this one. This is a huge-ass writing on the floor next to our common citofono.

Translated, it says “Me and you forever. I love you my little one.

Personally, if I were that girl, I wouldn’t find it romantic. Instead, I’d find it stalkerish and creepy.

  1. It is super ugly
  2. It vandalises public property
  3. Not creative nor effort given at all
  4. Did I mention that it is ugly?

Whatever happened to romanticism like writing a poem or a love letter (girls love those and keep them forever!) or singing a song or bringing little gifts or flowers?

I’m sorry, but this little romeo wannabe is an idiota.

My family in Rome! Part 5 and final

Hi everyone! Gosh, I wanted to post this last Friday, but was so busy running around Rome. Did you know that there is an English library here? To be honest, I didn’t feel like I was in Rome at all when I stepped inside.

Anyway, here’s the continuation and the last installation for My family in Rome series πŸ™‚

Sunday

As my family didn’t seem to be content from roaming around the week before, we agreed on going back to the open flea market in Porta Portese. So early in the morning, we dumped Cart (who’s not a morning person) and went on our own.

Because the roads there were closed for the open market, I couldn’t drive there directly (not that I would like to anyway as parking would be a nightmare) so I parked close to the nearest tram station and we took the number 8 to Porta Portese and we started roaming around.

The first stall that we saw was one that sold African items. My mum seemed transfixed looking at the colourful fabric decoration and bags. She even got for herself this traditional outfit and then valiantly started to bargain with the shop owner – a rather big and strong man. She’s very brave!

Either she has a lucky face or she’s very good at it (maybe both) and she got a really good deal in the end! I never tried to bargain myself … it’s just not in me, I guess πŸ˜›

Later on, we went to a stall selling clothes at a cheap price. It was a mix of new and used items, and my mum got some tops for herself, at less than 5 euro each. You’ll get to see her modelling it towards the end of the day πŸ™‚

We must have taken such a long time, because from this point onwards, Nazry decided to split up to go to the other side, so that he could look at the more rare and unusual things while I sticked around to babysit my parents πŸ˜›

To be honest, it’s was infuriating then, seeing how my parent’s just got excited like little children in a candy shop. No, really. My dad kept wandering off, looking around at wallets, and belts, and bags and sandals (which he could get in a pasar malam in Singapore)

While my mum keeps buying scarves and tshirts. I could see it in their eyes, their inner monologue saying, “I want this! I want that!

But reflecting back, it’s sort of cute when I think about it now. It’s nice to see your loved ones still have a child-like quality (as opposed to being completely jaded)

(If you’re wondering why I added this picture of a giraffe stool. I like giraffe prints and would like to collect more if I could)

As the time got close to the afternoon, we decided prior to regroup. It wasn’t easy to find each other in all the crowd and I was relieved when we managed to see each other in the end. Thank goodness for technology! I have no idea how tourists managed to go like this 20 years ago.

Anyway, he got for himself several old and rare postcards. And we were in a heavy discussion if they were actual photographs or paintings to look like Rome during the 60s. I forgot to take a picture of them though.

As we were hungry, I was wondering what we could eat for lunch. Maybe pasta? Cart should have been up, so he could cook us lunch! But we happened to be driving along the way, we did a quick stop to buy some kebabs.

The servers must have been glad to see us because immediately they sprang energetically when the four of us stepped in. Hehe.

Some Italian lesson! Pollo means chicken. Agnello means lamb. Vitello means veal. Manzo means beef and Pesce means fish. Some important words to know when you’re going to Italy :p

(Actually I think the most important phrase is Dov’e’ il bagno? Where is the toilet?)

Oh! As a sidenote, all these while when we’ve been eating out, my parents has been buying a little bit more extra … or saving the leftovers for breakfast! For me, after living in Rome for a while, it takes a little getting used to, eating savory things for breakfast all over again!

When we reached home, all of us had a lovely and easy lunch together. Cart had his falafel kebab, my mum and dad had a kebab each, my brother had a kebab plate.

And of course for dessert, I stopped by Cecere prior. One of my favourite pastry shop. I cannot go without my cream puff and maritozzo! πŸ™‚

After lunch, we rested for a while, and then I had the tough decision of where to head to afterwards.

Do we go to Villa Adriana? Or perhaps somewhere out of Rome. Such a hard decision! But in the end, I decided to go to Ostia Antica. This is a place about 20 minutes drive from where we live and is somewhere that I’ve always wanted to go to.

Strangely, in all our years living here, we’ve never been there before (both Cart and I) so it should be interesting. Moreoever it was closer so we could spend more time there and less time commuting.

It took us about 15 minutes driving there and we reached a charming looking area. One of the thing that caught our eye was a castle. Thus we made a stop to explore.

To get inside, we had to enter a Piazza. And I think it’s so lovely here. So idyllic and tranquil, it feels like I’m transported back in time. It makes a wonderful location for wedding photoshoots I think.

Look at how fairy tale-ish the area looks like. This could even be a spot where you could do a role play for “The elves and the shoemaker

And just by chance, indeed there was a wedding going on! There is a church right at the end. And there were loads of people wearing fancy outfits going in the church. I was raring to enter the place to have a better look, but the rest of the family didn’t seem to have a busybody bone like me πŸ˜›

And here is the castle! While it looked rather modest, it is so charming and lovely. I would have loved to enter and see what it looked like inside!

Unfortunately, it was locked and opened for tour walks during wednesdays only. Oh well! Perhaps we’d be luckier the next time πŸ™‚

And here is a random tri-coloured Roman cat – happy to get a cuddle.

After walking in the piazza, we then headed to the Ostia Antica Archeological site. It costs about 8 euro per person to enter. Kind of expensive, but it was something amazing to be seen.

The first thing you’ll see is this crackly road. Have you ever seen this sort of road before? Maybe in postcards?

Now I finally see the real thing! By the way, this used to be a solid road, but throughout the years, it eroded to look like this infamous scale-like road.

As Ostia Antia was relatively close to the sea, thus it became a place where a lot of trading and marketing was involved which attracted people to call it home and became a community.

Here are some of the things that we saw. Isn’t it impressive how well preserved the buildings are Considering that these are about 2 thousand years old – Older than the colosseum!

This was a thermal bath

If I’m not wrong, this was the housing area

This was the arena where wrestling was done

This was where the capitol building was

This was the communal water fountain

This is the remains of a temple

And this is the auditorium

And here is a random gecko

It’s so beautiful in here. Seriously breathtaking. Everywhere you go, is like a high fashion photoshoot location. See, even my dad looks modelesque here, even without trying.

It was nice to see everyone looking so interested and excited going around the area. Just look at how excited my mum looks as she goes climbing around this auditorium. She even imagined that she was a queen, giving her speech on top of this podium. Hehe.

As you can see, there were so much to see and roam and explore. It’s nice that we could walk in and out and up and down the builds.

And see the still intact mosaics

As a sidenote, there were a few interesting plantlife to be seen, apart from acorns and figs, Cart managed to sniff out (literally) wild rucola! It’s a strong and distinct smell.

After about an hour and a half roaming around the place, it was close to the closing time. But we only managed to walk through half of the area! Gosh, we walked quite a bit and yet didn’t see everything!

But oh well! I’d love to come back here again. Maybe next time, I’d find more photographer friends and we could have a high fashion photoshoot here πŸ˜›

By the way, the tops that we are both wearing, costs less than 5 euro each. This pink top I’m wearing is a Mickey and Minnie Disney shirt, and I love it! I love bancarelle! Maybe I should write a blog post on the good ones in Rome πŸ™‚

Random cat pics we spotted in the area! Gee, what a sour faced puss.

And a confused kitty.

Anyway, to end the day, and finally had a quick stop at the supermarket for some groceries for dinner. And at the same time, I guess my family could get some last minute keepsakes.

Nazry actually went crazy on buying coffee. He got for himself TWO large coffee makers, the 12 cups size cafettiere and 16 packs of coffee. Enough for him to last a year. Maybe even two! But It’s actually cheaper to get them in Italy. I remember when we were in Singapore, it costs almost 10 dollars for a quality pack of coffee.

I saw this for sale and thought that it could be interesting to eat. I didn’t like it too much though. Chilli and chocolate tastes a bit odd to me. I prefer the orange and chocolate combination.

Monday

Oh gosh. It’s their final day here. How did time pass by so quickly? It seems like I just blink an eye and a week just gone by.

Anyway, Cart took the day off to send them to the airport. And today, we pretty much just relaxed around the house, my family got their luggage ready and then we had a simple lunch at home.

As a finale, the last place that they visit, I took them to see Laghetto Eur. It’s not really a touristy place, but personally, I enjoy visiting this area anyway.

The passeggiata del Giappone is a big park surrounding a lake. Here you could see a lot of parents taking their children for a stroll, couples picnicking, buff men canoeing … And every now and then, there will be a bazaar or an event here.

I myself go jogging here regularly and I see familiar faces almost every time. It’s a nice place to go to for people watching.

Anyway, we walked to one end of the lake to see the ducks. While it was normal for the random person to throw small pieces of bread to the birds, there happened to be a guy who brought two black bin bags full of bread.

Soon, one corner of the lake was filled with floating bread. It looked so dirty-ish (although the birds and fishes and turtles will probably eat them all in the end) I think we were all just amazed at seeing all those wastage.

We continued walking and going for a stroll …

I just find it very relaxing just to be walking here. It’s not crowded and you could think better here. Maybe it’s just me?

At length, we walked to the other side of the lake … And there’s a McDougals here! I was joking if they wanted to eat here. Surprisingly, they thought that it was a good idea and went ahead! Ehm. Me and my big mouth!

Anyway, there wasn’t that much difference between here and the one in Singapore. The menu might be slightly different (like the McItaly)but the regulars like the Fillet-o-fish is the same.

(Meat isn’t halal here, but the fries and seafood are fried in vegetable oil if you trust to eat them)

Anyway, it’s a little bit different here cos I feel it’s slightly more posh. Something about a gazebo and a view of the lake makes it seems more high class, somehow πŸ™‚

Oh, I just remembered, that my dad wanted a cappuccino (which is a breakfast drink). It was already late afternoon, so the man at the counter looked at me in surprise and I just shrugged my shoulders. The things I have to endure for my parents :p

Anyway, after our drinks, we then continued walking and of course … camwhored!

One.

Two.

Three!

Hahaha!

And then we walked to Giolitti which was at the other end of the lake. It’s a well known gelateria and there are a number of branches here in Rome. The servers all wear spiffy looking uniforms with vests and a bow tie.

There are a different range of gelato. And you could even have 3 flavours in one cone if you liked.

But I was more in the mood for frappe. Which is basically milkshake – part ice cream and part milk. I love frappes!

The only thing is, when tasting it, while it’s not bad, I think that the frappe that we had isn’t as nice as the one that we had in Millenium though. There are better gelateria in Rome.

Oh! As a sidenote, this is another top my mum got from a bancarella. Less than 4 euro, but she’s rocking the look! πŸ™‚

After we had our dose of ice cream, then we went back home where we changed to our Baju Kurong. And by chance, each of us had a green baju kurong (even though they are in different shades) Cart still kept his and we went to have a quick photoshoot while it was still daylight.

As the day was still within the 30 days of Hari Raya, I guess it’s a family hari raya photo!

Don’t we all look so spiffy? I love this picture. But what would make it more complete is if my sister and other brother was here. Hopefully the next time πŸ™‚

And then soon after that, it was time for us to head to the airport. And we played tetris with the luggage, trying to fit the bags at the back of Cart’s car.

While they were trying to fit the luggage, my mum took a chance to pose on my scooter. Haha!

AND! This is probably the last picture I have of my scooter with my left mirror intact. Someone STOLE my mirror! Unscrewed it right off! Urgh! Such a pain trying to do a safety check while on the road … I want to beat up the person who stole my mirror!

Ahem. Anyway, I really didn’t want my family to go. It really felt like the days just passed by so quickly. It’s like they didn’t even stayed here. It’s like, I blinked my eyes and they were gone. It’s so unfair! (Inserts an Aerosmith song)

By the way, we found out that both my parent’s didn’t maximize their luggage weight. They could have had more than 10kg to bring back to Singapore. Bring a bigger bag next time. Hehehe.

So while we were waiting for the plane, we stopped by at some duty free shops where I spotted this interesting looking speaker. This one, I definitely wont throw things at it!

We then stopped at a bar for a drink. And we chatted about their experiences here, their feelings and hopes. I was already feeling quite sad. Sigh! Oh! I just remembered, my mum was asking “Will you miss me?” Because I was a little heartbroken, I replied, “No!” even though I was. And she hugged me tightly and responded, “Well, I’ll miss you!

(Sad emo Marina)

Anyway, this is the last coffee that they had in Rome.

And then it was time for them to board the plane. So we took a final picture together …

And this is the last scene of what I saw … my mum waving goodbye to us … πŸ™

I do hope that they had a nice vacation and stay. And hopefully it will not be the last. I miss them already and hopefully will seem them soon, be it here or in Singapore.

And that’s the end of the series! Hope that you enjoyed reading so far as much as I enjoyed writing it out …

If you managed to read till the end, thanks for enduring close to 3k words today … here’s a kopi for you! You deserve it! Hehehe!

My two cents on Amy Cheong

The latest hot topic in Singapore is about a woman who made a racial comment online last weekend.

The woman, Amy Cheong, former assistant director to NTUC was upset about the noise coming from a Malay void deck wedding and she posted this on her facebook account :

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The first time I saw the comments, I was ambivalent about it and pretty much dismissed it. In my mind, I thought, “Gee, what a dumb thing to say“. I was more disappointed rather, as these were words of a socially uneducated person (regardless if she went to university)

But the reverberations were fast and her post became viral. In a matter of hours, there was a significant amount of outcry online over her words.

It was understandable, as people seem to always be fascinated with “the bad” (which is why there’s always a traffic congestion when there’s an accident even though there are 4 other free lanes, as everyone slows down to look for any trace of gore and whatnots)

As expected, I see my timeline filled with replies, and I can feel their genuine anger. But what bothered me more is how emotional and quick the online community are at judging her and crying out foul and for her virtual murder.

Rather than discussing the issue like civil people, we think with our pride and ego. Gosh, is this really how we want to be perceived? That we are a community of mobs?

It’s as if someone makes a passing comment while walking, and if another hears it and doesn’t like it, doesn’t give them the right to form a collective group to beat that someone up. That’s bullying, regardless if the person deserves it or not.

Just to be clear, I’m not condoning Amy Cheong’s actions (moreover, don’t you think that she’s already been duly punished already?) But I feel, we should be more gracious and be a little less emotional especially online, where media is usually more fantastic than what it really is. Like the extreme anti-religion protesters are only 0.007 of the entire community. Mass media made it seem like it was more.

It’s always easy to react, especially online when information is transferred so quickly. The beauty of being human and freedom is that everyone has the right to think what they want. But each person should be responsible for what they convey

Each of us have a choice in how we react. Be angry and finger point – leaving the problem unsolved and widening the gap OR we could educate and have a more understanding and open minded mentality with each other (not just tolerance)

To be honest, if someone were to say to me, “Malay weddings are low class and costs only 50 dollars“, I’d genuinely be surprised and and wished that we had that person as our wedding planner! And if someone says to me, “People who have void deck wedding are idiots as it will lead to a divorce“, well I’m just happy that my marriage with Cartcart is still going strong.

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(What does the cost of a wedding got to do with the happiness of a marriage anyway?)

Why take an allegation personally, when you know it’s not true? Rather than reacting negatively, we need to be the bigger person.

And as for me, I’ll just relax one corner and play my guitar.

My family in Rome! Part 4

Alright! Compy seems to be working fine at the moment *crosses fingers* So lets get this blogging started and continue from where we left off πŸ™‚

Thursday :

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We took it easy today (since our openbus tickets are already expired, there was no sense in rushing as we’ve seen all the important monuments in Rome)

Thus, we had a slow and relaxing morning. I made a quick lunch and then went out for a bit of a walk. And for today, I thought that I’d take them to Quartiere Portico. This place is famous as there is a large Jewish community here.

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Thus, after lunch, we drove and parked near the nearest tram stop where my parents saw a veg and fruit shop, so we stopped for a while and again, bought like 10 kg of fruits -_-” Luckily, the car wasn’t too far, so we put them at the back at the car, and then we took the number 8 all the way to the Jewish quarters.

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Initially, Cart was extremely worried, especially with my mother wearing a headscarf, now with how the reactions are with the anti-religion movie. But nothing happened, thank goodness. I’m glad to see that the people are here much more open minded.

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One of the first thing that caught our eye was a bakery shop. It was open!

This was what caught our eye. This beautiful looking cake.

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The friendly shopkeeper explained to us that this is a typical sweet that is eaten during Jewish celebrations like the Jewish new year.

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Initially my mum wanted to get five of them. But we were adviced not to get that many as we found out, that each cake was enough for 8 people to eat! We got two instead and each one is very heavy by the way. I don’t think we could carry 5!

By the way, a small piece is extremely filling as it has almonds and dried fruits. I couldn’t eat too much of this. It was extremely sweet and more than a slice will be a littleΒ too cloying for me.

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We then took a stroll past the shops, and towards the restaurants. There are plentiful of famous restaurants here. And if you’re here during March – May, it would be artichoke season, and the best time to eat Carciofi alla giudia – one of the food which is famous here.

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As a sidenote, there seems to be a discrepancy about Anthony Bourdain shooting a show here, in the Jewish quarters. There was a scene where the host was eating in a restaurant in the Jewish quarters when we watched it here in Italy, but it seems in the American screening, the scene was taken out completely.

It’s been said that Bourdain used the set of one restaurant, but the food served was made in another restaurant. So as to not confuse viewers, the scene was taken out completely.

Personally, I find this episode corny as heck. Nevertheless, it’s always a small thrill to be able to spot out the places that I recognize.

Anyway, at the end of the Jewish restaurants, we reached Porto D’Ottavia. I like to call this the fake colosseo as it has a round shape, much like the colosseo and you always spot this out when taking the tour bus. See the right hand side?

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My parents were very fascinated by the scenery. As well as the marble and the ruins that was still standing. They kept asking questions like, “What do the people do during those times?” “Is this like a coffee shop where people meet up?

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Hmm … I think so! This used to be a market in ancient times, if I’m not wrong. So this was where people meet up and buy groceries!

Anyhow, we turned back and crossed the main road to go to Campo Dei Fiori. It was then that the sky got darker and it started to drizzle …

But it didn’t dampen our spirits! By the way, Campo dei fiori is easily recognizable by this statue. I call it, “Thief, the dark project” (Not really. He was actually a poor friar that was burned to death πŸ™

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This is a nice place to go in the mornings as there is an open market here. So you could see and buy seasonal fruit and vegetables as well as seeing beautiful handmade items and flowers. Something that’s quite interesting to see in my opinion.

But we reached here after two, plus it was raining, so the only remnants of a market life was the garbage-men cleaning up the area. So it was a little depressing.

But it happened to be that as soon as we started to walk away, there were some football group and cheerleaders in the area and they did a quick display in the square. My mum quickly snapped a picture :

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Anyway my dad needed to go to the toilet, so we stopped by a bar which was nearby on the pretex of having coffee. But in the end, it turned out that we ended up using the loo one by one myself included!

When I came back, I felt something strange going on. The barista looked shy, while my mum was grinning widely. It was then my brother was telling me that Mum flirted with the barista and fired a lot of questions.

Well, here he is! By the way, my mum snapped this picture, not me πŸ˜›

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My mum has good taste, huh? A little too young for her maybe?Β And as soon as we left the bar, Nazry and I started teasing her.

Naz and me : “You’re such a flirt, aren’t you!

Mum : “Oh yes!

And then she realised what she said, and quickly corrected herself.

Mum : “No! That’s not right! I’m just being friendly!

But by this time, we were both sniggering.

Then we went to Lush nearby. This place is lovely and smells wonderful. And while they specialise in handmade soap, everything looks so good to eat.

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I warned my parents not to get anything here, as it tends to be on the pricey side. Just look! Don’t buy!

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But they didn’t listen to me. And they got quite a bit of soaps and creams and whatnots. Oh well, if it makes them happy. They got quite a lot of freebies in the end! πŸ™‚

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It was past 5 pm and we headed towards a place that specialised in Filetti di baccala. This is codfish, dipped in batter and deep fried. Sort of like fish and chips (but without the chips)

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It was probably too early to have dinner (I think we were the only customers there at the time) But what other chance do we have to visit this place again? Moreoever the filetti here is yummy! Plus this place brings memories to Cart. As he has memories of his teacher bringing him and his classmates here for a meal together at the end of the school term.

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By the way, one of the endearing habit that I found out that all of us had when the fish arrived was, all of us were hoping that there was a bottle of chili sauce. We tend to slather fried food with chili sauce. And it took me a long time to get used to it, but the fish tasted as good as it was (our itchy fingers poured some vinegar on top of it anyway)

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Of course, when we reached home we didn’t have dinner as we were still full. I don’t even remember what Cart ate. I’m such a bad wife.

Friday :

As it was Friday, my parents wanted to go to the mosque again.

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However, I’ve never driven out this far before (it’s more than 20km from home to get there) and I put my faith on the GPS.

Unfortunately, it was a cloudy day and rainy day, blocking the satellites. Thus my GPS wasn’t to locate where I was. And after a while, I couldn’t recognize any landmarks or roads. Everything looked unfamiliar It was so stressful.

With all the confusion, I took almost 2 hours to reach there instead of one.

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But when we reached there, we saw loads of police vans and soldiers as well as important looking men and cars. And there was a big crowd. What was going on? Was there a riot going on? Did an important person die?

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It was only later that we found out that the new prime minister of egypt was on a diplomatic tour here. Take a look at how popular he is. Everyone’s crowding to look at him!

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The only sad thing is, with all the security going on, the food bazaar wasn’t around(and I was so looking forward to eating some kebabs and we were all famished.

Anyway we stopped by castroni for a bit. This is a shop that sells international goods and also a great place to buy coffee and gourmet chocolates.

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And then we quickly drove home and quickly made some noodles. We were all so famished. After that, I quickly made some chicken noodle soup as this was to be brought to my in laws. And we waited for Cart to come back from home so we could all go together.

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Initially, it was supposed to be a small dinner together. But when we reached there, we saw the table nicely set up. And then my sister in law and her children arrived. It felt quite festive!Β I guess this is a sort of impromtu Hari Raya celebration?

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In the end, I think we shouldn’t have eaten the noodle and should have stayed hungry. Because my MIL made quite a lot of food! (I don’t understand, she was the one who said that she didn’t want to fuss and cook :P)

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But I am glad to see how well our families are interacting together. They seem to extremely friendly and get along with each other and that was lovely to see. I’d hate to be in a relationship where the parents and in laws don’t see eye to eye.

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Saturday :

Today’s rest day for my parents. Ok. My dad hasn’t been complaining but I see that he’s been having issues with his legs so I thought that it could be good for them to stay to rest for a bit.

But I still felt bad nevertheless when my dad saw me and Nazry ready to go out and asked, “Where are you going?” as if, we were abandoning them. So I told him that we were going back to San Pietro, the same place where we went to last week, so that Nazry could see it for longer.

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Anyway, initially Nazry wanted to go there on my scooter. But to be honest, I’m not very confident on bringing a pillion. Sam the scooter is small. For short distances is fine, but will be a pain when going to the city center (Moreoever my brother’s starting to be on the heavy side …)

So we drove to metro in the end and we had lunch at subway. I was still slightly peckish, so we had a bit of pizza at the bakery not too far away .

And then my evil tummy still wanted to be fed, so we stopped by a gelateria called, Millenium.

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I knew of this place when I had my eye checkup some years back. And I think that their ice cream is really good. A little on the pricey side, but still very very good.

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So good that, initially, Naz didn’t want an ice cream. But as soon as he tasted my creme caramel frappe, he rushed back in to get one of his own. Haha!

We then walked towards the Vatican museum. And in my heart, I was hoping that Naz didn’t want to visit. Because personally, I feel that it’s an expensive tourist trap, and just not worth visiting. Because the only big deal is the Creation of Adam in the Sistine chapel. But it’s not worth paying 15 euro being pushed around and screamed at …

When Naz saw the crowd and the price, he quickly changed his mind.

And then we walked to San Pietro. Oh boy, it was so crowded, that there were lines all the way towards the main road. It would take at least 30 minutes of queuing up for security! (Not including the check for clothing) So we changed our mind and decided to go to Piazza Navona to see if we could spot out the painting that Naz fancied.

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Unfortunately, after going around two rounds in Piazza Navona. He didn’t spot his red tango dancer. And we went back home quite disappointed.

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I felt so bad for Nazry. It wasn’t a fruitful day at all! So to cheer him up, I thought that we could all go to another museum. And it’s not too far away from home either.

The Museo nazionale delle arti e tradizioni popolari! Like how I’ve blogged before, I highly recommend this museum. There are so many interesting things to be seen here.

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Ranging from the outfits, to tools that Italians used from the early 19th century to the end of the 20th Century. It’s a real feast for the eyes and because it’s located outside of the city center, it’s less crowded and confusing here.

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As it was already nightfall when we were done at the museum (actually, we wanted to stay longer, but it was already close to closing time) So we decided to have dinner at il secchio. The same place where my family ate on their first day here.

Perhaps it wasn’t the best time to go there as it was a Saturday. I forgot that on Saturdays, all restaurants are crowded and thus we’d have to wait for a long time.

It was about 30 minutes of waiting till we finally had a table and eventually we had our bruschetta and pizza anyway.

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As we had our dinner, all of us marveled at how fast the time passed by, but I felt quite sad, as it will be another two more days with my family before they leave …

Watch out for the final installation in the next post πŸ™‚