Yikes!

We’re in the middle of January now and yikes! So far there’s only one entry for this month. I have to admit that I’m kind of missing my blogging routine.

I wouldn’t say that I’ve been extremely busy, and yet time seems to just flow by and before you know it, the day is over and then the week has already passed you by. Freaking heck. It’s like a scene from Click with Adam Sandler when he fast forwards his days away.

Anyway to bore you, let me tell you how my regular day is. In the mornings I’d do a bit of housework – like making coffee (which is VERY important to an Italian) washing the dishes, laundry, tidying … etc. I wouldn’t say that I’m a neat freak, but I do just enough so that my eyes don’t start to complain 😛

And then as it gets closer to noon and the temperature slightly warmer (as it is winter right now and lately it’s been less than 10 degrees) I’d go training for my half marathon. And I have to say that I’m quite proud of myself at how much I’ve progressed. Just last Saturday, I managed to run 16km which is the longest distance that I’ve ever gone. Which is crazy incredible! When I started running, I never thought that I’d ever go beyond 2.4km.

I wouldn’t lie, it was tiring and my legs felt like jelly and I feel crazy hungry at the end of the run. But one of the things that is motivating me right now is this woman in Denmark who is doing ONE Marathon A DAY FOR 365 days. Madness!

After that, I’d either go over to a friend’s house and hang out or I do groceries or I go to work and then head to Italian class after that.

And then by the time I reach home it would already be around 8.30pm and I’d cook dinner and by then, after that I’d be too tired to do anything more but to lie down and watch a good movie.

Normally I’d fall asleep while watching the movie and the day starts over – rinse and repeat.

And here I end this blog post abruptly.

If you can decipher this, you are probably a genius

I went a little overboard last weekend and bought a few sewing magazines.

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In Italy, there are a few popular riviste di cucito such as Burda and Modellina. MIL tells me that these are useful as apart from giving sewing ideas and tips, they also include cartamodelli (templates) that I could use for my projects.

Personally, I think that these are great and a little more convenient compared to buying the templates online, since there are a lot of newspaper kiosks in the neighbourhood.

Flipping through the magazines, there are a couple that I would love to start on.

Like this cute sun-dress. Reminds me quite a bit of the one that I have from Mango.

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This top I’d definitely wear as outfits such as these are very versatile and never go out of style. Quite perfect for the upcoming spring.

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I adore 60s fashion. It is one of the most fashionable decade in my opinion. So this dress really called out to me. Looks really classy doesn’t it?

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Sidenote : I just watched Down with love yesterday. And while the storyline was kind of meh, the outfits were just amazing! I love seeing colourful stuff.

But talking to my mum on the phone, she advised me to start with something simple, like a skirt. And so I saw this one which I quite liked. I can pair this with my nice green jacket and my nice boots and my nice bag and my nice blings.

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Looks simple enough to make. From what it looks like in the picture, it consists of 4×2 separate segments which I need to sew together. I can do that.

Looking at the instructions though, it starts to get a little challenging. What on earth are all these words? Since it’s in Italian, and I’m not that fluent …I’m a little overwhelmed but never-mind. Looking at this on the positive side, it can be a sort of language practise right?

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But that was nothing compared to this below. What on earth is this?! How am I supposed to read this? Where am I even supposed to start? This diagram looks much more complicated than the Advanced Mathematics that I had to learn while in Pre-Uni.

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I think I need to lie down.

Life has its strange ways

Something terrifying happened to me recently and I’m just starting to feel better.

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I’m extremely humbled by the kindness of the people around me and am glad that I’m still alive and healthy enough to see another sunset.

It’s funny how having to go through adversities tends to bring a new perspective. And then the problems that you have – like not having enough money, feeling inferior, feeling physically inadequate etc … doesn’t seem like such a big issue anymore.

I’ll try not going to worry so much and submit myself. There are always worse things that can happen.

Hohoho!

Even though I don’t really celebrate Xmas, I got this from my inlaws :

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A sewing machine!

It’s quite unexpected, as I don’t remember mentioning about this to my in laws. Moreover, it’s been a while since I’ve last sewed, but I really can’t wait to start on new projects – upcycling, making new dresses and crafts. I’ve seen quite a number of ideas online and I think it would be a lot of fun 🙂

Meet the makeup artist for the walking dead

Alessandra asked me to join her for the Idea Makeup 2012 event in Eur yesterday, and I had a pleasant time. It was a sort of showcase with students from different makeup schools in Rome.

Being here, reminds me quite a bit of when Hema and I were attending Jule’s final practical from Cosmoprof makeup school. There were quite a bit of similar elements here and there – such as the fantasy makeup …

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The classic and formal makeup …

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As well as the special effects …

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It was quite interesting to hear about of how the rotten flesh were created – it was basically a mix of?silicone?and rubber with loads of red paint.

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The cat below was interesting as it was an animatronic cat. Would have been interesting to see it work in real life.

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But I think that the highlight of the show was when Oscar winning makeup artist, Vittorio Sodano was up on the stage. One of his most noted work was in Apocalypto and he’s currently working on the walking dead.

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I enjoyed listening to him as he was retelling his experiences and how excited he was working on something that he’s passionate about, telling us to never give up on our dreams (clique as it sounds) It was quite inspirational.

And here is the demo for his work :

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The picture really doesn’t do it justice, you really had to see it in real life. It was really scary as there were blood flowing out from the mouth and the face really looked nasty. If I didn’t know that this was a make-up show, I’d run far far away!

A shoe cobbler in Rome!

Many years back, I was walking in Orchard Road, Singapore with Jules where we discovered a closed bag sale. There were loads of beautiful bags there – the classic, the elegant, the modern.

I got my mum a beaded one, something like this except it was in red.

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And then I looked around for something that would catch my eye. And at length, across the corner, there it was … it had all the elements that I loved, it was green, it had a cat and a frog, it was unique. But most importantly, it was so adorable.

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I held my breath as there was a woman who started to pick it up and examined it for the longest time, and then after an eternity, finally placed it down. I went over, and realised that there was a slight imperfection – a screw from the handles were missing. Nevertheless, I didn’t want to just let this lovely thing go, so I went over to the cashier and pleaded with her, almost hysterically to ask her if there was anything she could do.

Fortunately for me, eventually she came back with a screw she found and I tucked my new purchase under my arms triumphantly. I really did love my cat bag.

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In any case, with the years of wear and tear, one of the black fabric attached to the handles broke and I didn’t know where to go to. I really didn’t want to throw my little cat bag away. But I didn’t know of any places to fix it, so it stayed in the cupboard for the longest time.

It was only recently when walking around San Paolo that I found out that there was a cobbler in the area. My goodness, shoe repairing is a dying trade. It was such a rare thing to see, even in Singapore. It was as if I hit the lottery.

So I rushed back home and on the day itself, I brought my beloved cat bag in. They took about two weeks to have it fixed. And then it was as good as new!

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I paid 4 euro, which was quite affordable. So much so that Cart’s scrambling to find old shoes that he could have fixed.

So if you’re in Rome and would like to have your favourite shoes and (maybe bags) fixed, you might want to stop by San Paolo. It’s a nice area to explore anyway.

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The cobbler is somewhere along Via Corinto, either number 4 or 6. Google maps is a little outdated here, as it shows shops which are not there anymore. Regardless, you could spot it out easily as it’s right next to a vegetable shop.

Do you know of any other cobblers in your area? When was the last time that you went to an old-school cobbler? Do share below 🙂

Why I don’t like answering the phone

I don’t like picking up the phone. Or more specifically, I don’t like picking up the home phone.

For some reasons, I keep calls from strange old women insisting for her granddaughter be put on the phone. Or silent people, not talking at all but there’s someone though as I can hear them breathing! But mostly, I avoid the phone because of extremely determined telemarketers.

So much so, that my MIL chided that it was so hard to contact me. With wide eyes, she’d go, “Ti ho chiamato tantissime volte. Ma non rispondi mai!” And then, I’d feel bad but what I don’t understand is why she couldn’t just call me on my mobile.

Anyway, It’s not so bad when I’m in Singapore, because I’m very comfortable at saying, “Oh. Really? Not interested. Bye!

But here in Rome, I need a bit of time to catch what they are saying and then find the correct words to respond. Telemarketers tend to speak really fast, and if you pause, they pounce on it and not let you have a chance to think and reply back. So, when it progresses this far, I’d usually be dumb-struck and paralysed and confused at what to do.

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One managed to get me to change my phone plan, and I said yes to whatever he said, mainly because I wanted him to get off my back. Luckily for me, I could go online and change my plan back to how it was originally.

Sure. I could always use the,”Non parlo Italiano” excuse. But while that might work for some, the rest doesn’t care! As long as they have you on the phone, they’ll continue talking and insisting on explaining about their promotions. I don’t think I’ve ever experienced a more determined telemarketer while in Singapore.

On the one hand, I do feel empathy for telemarketers. Because I used to work in a similar line during my school vacations and we only get paid based on commission. Thus I know it’s not an easy job. But on the other hand, being overly aggressive really doesn’t do it for me.

So nowadays when the phone rings and it’s a telemarketer, I try hard to say, “Non mi interessa” and just put down the phone. Part of me feels guilty for being so rude, but you got to do, what you got to do.

Make your own DIY shampoo and conditioner

Have you ever used things out of the kitchen to make your own DIY toiletries? In a lot of instances, it works just as well as the products you buy over the counter. Moreover, since you know what is going in the mix, you risk having less adverse effects on your skin.

When I was about 12 years old, I experimented with making an egg mask and not too long ago, I found out about the benefits of bicarbonate of soda, which I love.

I’ve also been using the mix below as a dry shampoo. You add about a spoonful of corn flour and a spoonful of cocoa powder. Mix together with a few drops of essential oil. You can use a soft fluffy brush to dab it on your dry scalp and then brush it off.

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The corn flour is supposed to soak away excess oil, which makes the hair looks greasy. But leaves just enough to keep hair shiny and healthy with it’s natural oils. Which is why there are some people who are all for dry shampoos.

I guess it works. But you have to get over seeing yourself with powder and get used to the smell of cocoa in your hair. Plus it’s quite messy and I tend to see a lot of chocolate powder on the sink as I brush the powder away.

Anyway, to continue with the wonderful no package shop that I visited, I thought that I’d share also some DIY shampoo and conditioner that I learnt how to make at La Citta.

To make your own shampoo, you need :

  • A tablespoon of chickpea powder
  • A tablespoon of white wine vinegar
  • 100 ml of water

Mix the ingredients in a bottle and shake it well. This shampoo lasts for about 2 washes and should be used within the week.

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You use it as a regular shampoo – rub it on your scalp and in your hair. It probably feels odd to use as it doesn’t sud and have bubbles like a regular shampoo. And the smell from the vinegar is something that you have to overcome. I have to admit that I was really sceptical that it would work but after two days of washing my hair this way, I have to say that my tresses look really good.

Chickpea powder is supposed to have a good cleansing properties for the scalp and the acidic properties from the vinegar makes the hair shiny.

Next time, I think I’d add some essential oil to make the smell more bearable.

To make your own conditioner/hair masque, you soak some linseed for several hours. Possibly even overnight. After that, you heat it up and then set the timer to 5 minutes once it starts simmering. There should be white bubbles as what you see below.

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By then, the consistency of the liquid should be a little bit viscous, slightly gel-like but still watery. At this point, let it cool down and then separate the liquid from the seeds. The part we use is the liquid.

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And to use the conditioner, you simply spread it on your scalp and hair, leave it on for a while and wash it off. Or for a deeper conditioning effect, leave it on for several hours while you do your housework, chores or grocery shopping. It’s transparent so no one could really tell if you tied up your hair.

Men could use this too for their beard.

Anyway, this conditioner, I love it a lot! The smell is pleasant hit of sweetcorn and somewhat floral. It’s a little messy to use it from the recycled glass bottle I used, so I reckon it’ll be much easier to get a squeeze bottle to store the conditioner the next time.

Check out how my hair is loving it. Shiny and bouncy! And believe me, I’m not using any other additional products at all the past week. I’m really surprised at how well it works on me.

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All in all, I’d still use my regular shampoo once in a while, but after this little experiment, I really don’t mind continuing with the DIY shampoo and conditioner 🙂

Sigh

As I was putting away my summer clothes and arranging my winter ones, I found this :

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I’m still on the fence about this. On the one hand, we really cannot afford one. But the talk with A about her getting a menopause sort of haunts me.

I wouldn’t say that I’m terrified, but I’m feeling a bit pensive.

When foreigners try to speak Italian …

I was reading Nancy’s post and it amused me as I’d have to agree with her observance. Through my experience in my early years of living here, when I speak to an Italian, there is a big probability that two things will happen.

  • They would try to reply back to English even when I am speaking in Italian. I find it sort of charming that while I’m expressing myself in one language, and they respond in another.
  • They would pretend not to hear / understand me even when I know that I’m speaking well enough. Sometimes I think that they are flabbergasted that a non Italian looking person could speak Italian. To which I try to keep cool, smile, and repeat my request a little louder 🙂

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Sometimes when I go jogging, there would be people who stop me to ask for directions. Since I’m familiar with the area, I’d usually be able to answer them. Turn at the corner! Then go straight! And then when you see the market, turn right!

But there was one time when an elderly couple who slowed down their car as I went jogging. I sensed they wanted to ask for directions, so I slowed down too and took out my earphone and anticipated the question when I heard the old lady whispering to her partner, “Don’t ask her! She’s a straniera! She wouldn’t know!

Feeling a little stung, I speeded up and ran away. Yeah I can be such a meanie. When I think back about it, I could have helped them anyway and impress them at how much a straniera could know.

Interestingly ehough though, nowadays (as in the beginning of this year) the more I speak Italian, the lesser that I get the two reactions that I mentioned above. Either my Italian has improved (not to say that it is perfect) and I’ve gone more assertive or I just don’t care anymore. Yes. Yes. I look different. Deal with it.

I used to be all, “Oh, I haven’t mastered this language yet, I’m not ready and I’m too shy to speak it” The thing is, I think that we will never ever be 100% ready so might as well start now and grow a thick skin.

Not only have I picked up the language, I picked up the mannerisms too. I strut, I overtake, I gesticulate, sometimes I curse. Either way, I think I’m slowly turning into a Roman.