I don’t like picking up the phone. Or more specifically, I don’t like picking up the home phone.
For some reasons, I keep calls from strange old women insisting for her granddaughter be put on the phone. Or silent people, not talking at all … there’s someone though … cause I can hear them breathing! But mostly, I avoid the phone because of extremely determined telemarketers.
So much so, that my MIL chided that it was so hard to contact me. With wide eyes, she’d go, “Ti ho chiamato tantissime volte. Ma non rispondi mai!” And then, I’d feel bad, like I’ve let her down as a DIL but what I don’t understand is why she couldn’t just call me on my mobile
Anyway, It’s not so bad when I’m in Singapore, because I’m very comfortable at saying, “Oh. Really? Not interested. Bai!”
But here in Rome, I need a bit of time to catch what they are saying and then find the correct words to respond. Telemarketers tend to speak really fast, and if you pause, they pounce on it and not let you have a chance to think and reply back. So, when it progresses this far, I’d usually be dumb-struck and paralysed and confused at what to do.
One managed to get me to change my phone plan, and I said yes to whatever he said, mainly because I wanted him to get off my back (Luckily for me, I could go online and change my plan back to how it was originally)
SURE! SURE! I could always use the,”Non parlo Italiano” excuse. But while that might work for some, the rest doesn’t care! As long as they have you on the phone, they’ll continue talking … and insisting on explaining about their promotions. Bla bla bla! Pet pot pet pot! I don’t think I’ve ever experienced a more determined telemarketer while in Singapore.
On the one hand, I do feel empathy for telemarketers. Because I used to work in a similar line during my school vacations and we only get paid based on commission. Thus I know it’s not an easy job. But on the other hand, being overly aggressive really doesn’t do it for me.
So nowadays when the phone rings and it’s a telemarketer, I try hard to say, “Non mi interessa” and just put down the phone. Part of me feels guilty for being so rude, but you got to do, what you got to do.