How do you like my eyes? I’m wearing those new fangled 1 day acuvue define contact lenses.
Since meeting cart, I’ve been trying for some while to learn the Italian language. It not so bad when Cart is around since we both could communicate in english. But it was kind of awkward when trying to communicate to his friends. Most of them were as fluent in English as I was in Italian. So while they were deep in their animated conversation, I had to poke cartcart, “Psst .. what are they talking about?”
I think one of the more perplexing moment was the time when I met Cart’s family. When we arrived, all I could manage was, ‘Buena Serra’ (Good Evening). I greeted everyone, till I heard a chuckle and cart conveying to me, “She’s asking if thats the only phrase that you know”
I was a bit embarassed.
Cart’s mom started asked questions about me. I had so much to tell them! But I couldnt. My grasp of the language was extremely rudimentary. After a while, it became a little cumbersome to let cart play the role of the translator. I think he got dizzy at our incessant questions.
So I just sat there quietly, smiled, nodded my head and pretended to be silent and wise.
Later on, I thought I’d be clever and use some gestures. Sign language are universal, after all. But after a while, I realise that the gestures that we commonly use, might not have the same meaning overseas.
If I were to go to work in Italy two years ago, I think I’d be very confused -
Boss : “Have you completed that report yet?”
I slap my forehead and think to myself, ‘Oh no I forgot!’
Boss : Very good, you’ve completed it. (Boxes palm)
Runs away and cover in fear as the boss wants to beat me up for not completing the report!
Not to say that I havent been trying to learn the language. So far I’ve been using several language software.
I like the Rosetta Stone as it is immersive:
The entire lesson is in Italian, it will ask you a phrase and you pick the right frame. I think its great for beginners because it is very easy to understand and pick up visually.
I also like the flash cards for Italian before you know it:
Its abit of rote learning which forces you to type in the right answer. It can get frustrating at times, but its a tried and true method which will improve the vocabulary.
I’m not too fond of the I can speak Italian by Transparent:
Its not very newbie friendly. When I started the lesson, the words used were way over my head. I didnt have the motivation to continue with the lessons. I think its more suitable for more advanced students.
Using software is definitely useful but I think there is something lacking. For me, human interaction where one can do actual conversation with another person is very important.
Initially, my friend Narima and me contemplated registering with the Italian Cultural Institute where we will be taught by qualified native Italian speakers.
But I balked when I calculated the total cost – it was nearly $500! I am sure that the teachers there are fantastic, but the price was abit much.
Then one day, I surfed the People’s Association website. I dont quite remember when I signed up for their online newsletter, but each month, I’d have updates about interesting courses that they were conducting. Having attended one of their course, I was quite impressed at the quality workshops that they had for a discounted price.
I did a search for Italian and to my rapture, I saw that there actually was an Italian Language course. The only center that conducted the lessons was at Tampines, which is quite far since I live on the other side of Singapore. Thank goodness for my scooter! It doesnt take more than 30 mins to ride there.
My first lesson there was great. Though the teacher isnt a native Italian, having lived, worked and attained a diploma in Italy, she was more than competent in teaching us.
I am in a very lively class with friendly classmates. We’d make mistakes sometimes, but we laugh at our mistakes. The teacher is cheerful that its such joy learning in the lessons. I can interact and practise with my classmates and the teacher – something that I dont think softwares can replace.
I’ve been to my fifth lesson so far. I wouldnt say that my Italian is that great, but I feel a bit more confident as compared to that time when I met Cart’s family. I dont have to pretend to be silent and wise anymore
Mi piace molto!
By the way, here are some great supplementary sites which I highly recommend:
Oh and before I go, there is a segment in the Italian phasebook that I was reading earlier where there some suggestive phrases that you could use.
The idea of whipping out the book when one is heavily making out is particularly funny to me.