I’m getting married!
I’m getting married! I’m getting married! I’m getting married!
Well, I think I’m getting married.
Every now and then, I’d ask Cart, “When are you going to marry me?” and he’d give the same answer, “You know our issues. I’ll marry you now if it werent for that“.
Cart and I have different religious beliefs. In our situation, marriage would not be legal unless one of us converts. But faith isnt something that can be forced upon .
This isnt easy. But I have faith that eventually we’ll be together.
Recently I asked him again.
Me : So, when are you going to marry me?
(Fully expecting the same answer)
Cart: Whenever you want
Me: We’ll get married on the 18th December. Thats a special day for me.
(Thats the date when we became partners in secondlife)
Cart: Hmm … thats too early, it clashes with my vacation days
(Completely flummoxed upon realising that he’s being serious)
Me: Huh? You’re really going to do it? Really? Really Really?
Cart: I could. You’ll have to tell me exactly what will happen
Me: You mean the customs?
Cart: Yes, I’d like to have an idea of what will happen. I’d also like to find a job for you here. I want you to have a good life”
Ok, so he didnt proposed. But that still counts as a proposal right?
And yet, there is this nagging feeling if I’ll ever adjust to life over there. Maybe its time for me to stop lurking and start posting at the Singapore Brides forum.
March 3rd, 2007 at 6:32 pm
heh heh heh…..
i also always ask my bf the same old qns.
its nice to hear that he has changed his answer.
i cant wait to hear his actual proposal though…
March 3rd, 2007 at 6:49 pm
congratsssssssssssssssssssssss … or is it too early and ok for this? coz as you said havn’t officially propose ni. ahh fcuk it
CONGRATSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS *hugs*
March 3rd, 2007 at 11:50 pm
Wow, congratulations!
Will there be cake?
March 4th, 2007 at 1:13 am
How exciting! I love weddings!!!! You’ll have to keep us posted on all the details as the fairy tale continues… :-)
March 4th, 2007 at 11:21 am
Ghostrider
Just a simple one will do just fine but as long as its not the “wanna buy a hdb house together” Hahaha.
Have you heard of this singaporean man who proposed to his girlfriend during a vacation in new zealand (I think) in a hot air balloon. I lost the blog address though, but I remember boating in the sea, champagne, rv rides. A bit too extravagant I think :|
I am sure your bf will turn around in propose in time :)
Sha
Thats why. Hehehehe. Thanks for the congratulations :)
Krysss
Yes, cake! Chocolate one of course :) And you’re invited!
Gypsy Girl
Of course :) Hehehehe!
March 4th, 2007 at 8:36 pm
Congrats! I believe the actual proposal will be soon. =) Can’t wait for any updates. =p With regards to your earlier post, thanks for your concern =), yup, Im fine, thank God. But it was really a scary experience as it happened where I was seated. =/
March 4th, 2007 at 9:29 pm
Vania
I’m glad that its over and that you’re fine :) I dont know when the actual proposal will be … *looks expectantly at someone and in a Russell Peters voice*
Be a man! Do the right thing!
March 5th, 2007 at 10:09 am
woohoo!! congrats! :D :D
March 5th, 2007 at 12:11 pm
Hey, congrats! So will there be a wedding ceremony in Singapore/Italy or both?
March 6th, 2007 at 1:45 am
Myztika
Thanks! It still feel abit unreal though, haha!
Alvin
Oh gosh! We havent really thought about that yet. Dual wedding sounds expensive :|
March 6th, 2007 at 2:31 am
Two weddings means more cake :)
March 6th, 2007 at 1:36 pm
Krysss
Two cakes are way more affordable than two weddings :P
March 6th, 2007 at 9:19 pm
Congrats.
March 7th, 2007 at 6:07 am
leonids
Thanks *hugs*
March 7th, 2007 at 2:06 pm
Ok, so if I can get this right, and count up all the complex cakey equations…
Two cakes are cheaper than two weddings, which mean you will probably have two cakes at one wedding… so that makes four cakes at two weddings.
Hey this is sounding better and better!
March 7th, 2007 at 7:27 pm
Uhm, Krysss, those multiplying cakes are a perfect example of the meaning of the word “groovy”… ;)
March 7th, 2007 at 10:11 pm
Looks like krysss can be the sponsor for the wedding :P
March 13th, 2007 at 2:56 pm
Hi Marina .. congratulations .. see you at the singaporebrides forum ..
March 13th, 2007 at 6:31 pm
I’m there already, cuclainne :)
April 15th, 2007 at 1:09 am
I wish you get it done soon.I procastinated mine…till it fell apart. Too late and too bad a shape to salvage it. We both parted in sorrow,grief and alot of hurt inside.
Just my 2c.
April 15th, 2007 at 6:52 pm
Azrin
Sorry to hear that Azrin … :(
June 26th, 2007 at 11:54 am
So..when R U getting married???
If he loves you…he will do anything for you….otherwise… it’s time to rethink and take account.
Best Wishes,