I’m getting married!

I’m getting married! I’m getting married! I’m getting married!

Well, I think I’m getting married.

Every now and then, I’d ask Cart, “When are you going to marry me?” and he’d give the same answer, “You know our issues. I’ll marry you now if it werent for that“.

Cart and I have different religious beliefs. In our situation, marriage would not be legal unless one of us converts. But faith isn’t something that can be forced upon.Β This isn’t easy. But I have faith that eventually we’ll be together.

Recently I asked him again.

Me : So, when are you going to marry me?

(Fully expecting the same answer)

Cart: Whenever you want

Me: We’ll get married on the 18th December. That’s a special day for me.

(Thats the date when we became partners in secondlife)

Cart: Hmm … that’s too early, it clashes with my vacation days

(Completely flummoxed upon realising that he’s being serious)

Me: Huh? You’re really going to do it? Really? Really Really?

Cart: I could. You’ll have to tell me exactly what will happen.

Me: You mean the customs?

Cart: Yes, I’d like to have an idea of what will happen. I’d also like to find a job for you here. I want you to have a good life”

Ok, so he didn’t propose. But that still counts as a proposal right?

my pretend engagement ring

And yet, there is this nagging feeling if I’ll ever adjust to life over in Rome. Maybe its time for me to stop lurking and start posting at the Singapore Brides forum.

22 Replies to “I’m getting married!”

  1. heh heh heh…..

    i also always ask my bf the same old qns.

    its nice to hear that he has changed his answer.

    i cant wait to hear his actual proposal though…

  2. How exciting! I love weddings!!!! You’ll have to keep us posted on all the details as the fairy tale continues… πŸ™‚

  3. Ghostrider

    Just a simple one will do just fine but as long as its not the “wanna buy a hdb house together” Hahaha.

    Have you heard of this singaporean man who proposed to his girlfriend during a vacation in new zealand (I think) in a hot air balloon. I lost the blog address though, but I remember boating in the sea, champagne, rv rides. A bit too extravagant I think 😐

    I am sure your bf will turn around in propose in time πŸ™‚


    Thats why. Hehehehe. Thanks for the congratulations πŸ™‚


    Yes, cake! Chocolate one of course πŸ™‚ And you’re invited!

    Gypsy Girl

    Of course πŸ™‚ Hehehehe!

  4. Congrats! I believe the actual proposal will be soon. =) Can’t wait for any updates. =p With regards to your earlier post, thanks for your concern =), yup, Im fine, thank God. But it was really a scary experience as it happened where I was seated. =/

  5. Ok, so if I can get this right, and count up all the complex cakey equations…

    Two cakes are cheaper than two weddings, which mean you will probably have two cakes at one wedding… so that makes four cakes at two weddings.

    Hey this is sounding better and better!

  6. I wish you get it done soon.I procastinated mine…till it fell apart. Too late and too bad a shape to salvage it. We both parted in sorrow,grief and alot of hurt inside.

    Just my 2c.

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