All the afternoon, my family and I poured over the beautiful wedding pictures and wedding videos that they brought along with them.
Such a beautiful couple.
With that in mind, many well meaning people tend to ask me, when would I be getting married.
I really dont know.
To me marriage is something sacred. Marriage isnt just about cohabitation. Its about making a promise to each other. A vow between two people to care, to protect and to love each other.
When I get married, if God willing, it is forever. Marriage is a serious sanction. I wouldnt want to have my vows crumble in 10 years? 5 years? A year? Even less?
People who get hitched in the spur of the moment wake up to their partners, and finding that they have ‘compatability issues’ as well as ‘irreconciliable differences’
Do I want to risk that? No
Do I want to get married? Of course
I’d like to take care of my partner. I’d like to have children too.
But at the same time, I’d like my partner to know and understand where I’m coming from, my beliefs and my ideas while I try to share his before we jump into matrimony.
Do you really want me and my future partner to be in a marriage that we’d be unhappy in?
Marriage – Its not that simple.