The wedding invite

Marina & partner. It specifically said Marina & partner. Where on earth am I supposed to find an eligible and strapping male partner for this weekend?

As much as I get thrills when two people in love getting married, I do get a little apprehensive – Theres so many factors that contribute to my dislike of attending wedding functions.

Like expectations of people looking at me as a single malay female. They’ll see that I’m of that ‘marriageable’ age and then they’ll start their talk of how I should get married as soon as possible. And then chide and scold me for still being single.

I’m rather sick of that. Why should I please you for something I’ll live with for the rest of my life?

But secretly, I do want to get married and care for a partner and have kids. I do want to share my life with my significant other. I just dont like the idea that I have to be obliged to do something, just because of social propiety.

But coming back to my colleague’s wedding, maybe I’ll just go to the wedding alone. She’s a friend and it would of course be lovely to see her on her most special day :)

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25 Responses to The wedding invite

  1. Anonymous says:

    **grumbles**

  2. marina says:

    Aww .. we is not mean. We is nice. You just funny.

    *continues to point and laugh*

    HA HA HA HA HA HA!!!

  3. marina says:

    *feeds you chocolate*

  4. marina says:

    Oh wait, I should stuff you with chocolates instead, like for the chinese belief that with the mouth full, the person wont say anything bad about the other person.

  5. Anonymous says:

    I heard that chinese monks use to put salted eggs in little boys mouths and ask them if they could remove certian crown jewels… seeing they couldnt say NO because they had an egg in their mouth… they took it as a yes.

    I wounder if they used Turtle Eggs???

    Yeah yer right. I dont want a turtle egg!!!! :(

    ***CrazyPhat

  6. marina says:

    Funny, I never heard of that tale before. Gosh if its true, that isnt pleasant at all!

  7. Anonymous says:

    Yeah, I think you are right. They should of atleast gave them a chicken egg and not that yuckie turtles egg.

    Keep your queen crown. I’m happy with my royal sceptre!!!

    ***CRazyphat

  8. marina says:

    Is that a double meaning?

  9. Anonymous says:

    Why Marina, what on earth could you mean? I assure you that a Turtles Egg is a Turtles Egg.

    ***crazyphat

  10. marina says:

    *smiles meaningfully*

  11. Anonymous says:

    ***bows to the queen****

    *c

  12. marina says:

    And dont forget who’s boss around here!

  13. Anonymous says:

    Right!

    *holding my royal septar* I decree that:

    It is the Turtle!

    Because she lays the eggs for the children to eat!

    **cRazyphAt

  14. marina says:

    What are you talking about?

  15. Anonymous says:

    I’m… I’m…. I’m not sure?

    I was so long ago that it feels like just a faded dream.

    **crazyphat.

  16. Anonymous says:

    BTW:

    I’ve been told that your blog is blocked in China! Are you a political dissident or an outcast international spy?

    You are a very intereging fem fatal!

  17. marina says:

    China blocks blogger.com, every tom, dick and harry knows that :P

  18. Xed says:

    I thought it probably had to do with the pic of your hand in the guy’s pants… my mistake…:P

  19. marina says:

    What? My hand isnt in his pants!!!

  20. Anonymous says:

    my name isn’t Tom, Dick nor Harry.

    :P

  21. migrante says:

    saludos desde tijuana en mexico

  22. marina says:

    Saludos desde Jurong en Singapore! :)

  23. Xed says:

    well, it looked like it is.

  24. marina says:

    Aww! Back to the drawing board I go :\

  25. Anonymous says:

    it’s a very nice flower! :)